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| This page is to list of things that I really like I was going to do a list of my pet peeves (=things I can't stand), which is basically complaining. But then I asked myself, "Does anyone really become happier by complaining? Or complaining in such a way as if I think the world owes me something?" So hopefully, this list will be a little more positive and affirming than what I was originally going to do. Lik-See The List: Things that I Really Like 1. When we conduct our conversations where we realize that criticizing something without being constructive is often destructive. (01/19/05) 2. When you realize that if you try to attract a person to you with wrong intentions and behavior, you may just attract the wrong type of person. (01/19/05) 3. When I remind myself that listening to someone can be the most important thing I do during the conversation. (02/17/05) 4. When we realize that driving in the rain means that we should drive slower than usual. (02/17/05) 5. When a restaurant serves orange juice in a glass size meant for any adult. (03/12/05) 6. When I remind myself that fear is one of the biggest reasons that opportunities to love and care for others are missed. (03/12/05) 7. When we realize that the hardest people to love and care for are often the people who need it the most. (04/16/05) 8. When we realize - in practice - that to have close relationships with others, we have to be open with our shortcomings and flaws. (04/16/05) 9. When we can be emphatic and compassionate to people that offend and hurt us. (05/10/05) 10. When we realize that being a better person has little to do with trying to convince ourselves that we're better than others. (05/10/05) 11. When we can spend more energy in admitting our faults than we do in criticizing other people's faults. (06/12/05) 12. When we ask ourselves, "Would I want that person to do that to me?" before saying or acting in a certain way toward that person. (06/12/05) 13. When people speak slowly and clearly when providing their phone number on a voice message. (07/15/05) 14. When I realize - in practice - that I have to expend more calories than I take in to lose weight. (07/15/05) 15. Air fresheners in all public restrooms. (07/15/05) 16. When we realize that it's a good idea to talk to the person before thinking and judging what kind of person he/she is. (07/15/05) 17. The ability to take back hurtful and insensitive things said to others. (07/15/05) 18. A way for a guy to get where he's going when lost in an unfamilar place - without having to stop and ask for directions, a.k.a. an affordable and reliable GPS unit. (08/20/05) 19. When we can admit it when we do the very things that irritates us about others. (08/20/05) 20. A health study to come out and say the following foods are good for you: donuts, cookies, french fries, potato chips, fried chicken, bacon. (09/19/05) 21. When we realize that the more we try to prove to others how loveable or likeable we are, the more we may be admitting that we don't feel liked or loved by others. (09/19/05) 22. Ability for a guy to read a girl's mind when she says, "You should know what I want without me having to tell you". (10/21/05) 23. When we realize our tendency to underestimate our tendency to be wrong. (10/21/05) 24. When we do our best to gather as much information as we can before forming an opinion on a matter. (11/27/05) 25. When we realize that expending alot of our energy to complain about how bad people are may be revealing how bad we are. (11/27/05). Click the following for anti-pet peeves for: 2004 2005 Check this website out every now and then as I add more to the list! Back to the main page. |
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