Complete

 Many of us are wishing, praying, hoping and dreaming

 of having someone by our side. Naghihintay na may

 ihulog ang langit para sa atin. We would even try

 reading books about love and how to win it.

 Tapos kapag may nakita, we would do anything just to

 make the person feel that he/she is loved. We

 sometimes sacrifice our own happiness just to be with

 the person we love. In the process, we all get hurt.

 Tapos we would give-up thinking na love was never for

 us.

 The misconception of humans about love and

 relationship is that having someone with us will make

 us complete. But the fact is "Love is extending one's

 self to another." It means that before we enter a

 relationship, we should already be COMPLETE.

 Otherwise, if we think that having someone will make

 us complete, it's not a relationship. It's dependence

 and it may not work out. When you are happy about

 yourself and you learn to love yourself, you may

 probably need not a partner (to a certain extent).

 Right now, I'm trying to love myself more and to

 accept completeness. What happens next will be another

 story. But for some who may be losing hope, this

 affirmation may help.

 COMPLETE

 Just because no one has been fortunate enough

 to realize what a gold mine you are,

 doesn't mean you shine any less.

 Just because no one has been smart enough

 to figure out that you can't be topped,

 doesn't stop you from being the best.

 Just because no one has come along

 to share your life,

 doesn't mean that day isn't coming.

 Just because no one has made

 this race worthwhile,

 doesn't give you permission to stop running.

 Just because no one has realized

 how much of a man/woman you are,

 doesn't mean they can effect your

 masculinity/femininity.

 Just because no one has come

 to take the loneliness away,

 doesn't mean you have to settle for a lower

 quality.

 Just because no one has shown up

 who can love you on your level,

 doesn't mean you have to sink to theirs.

 Just because you deserve

 the very best there is,

 doesn't mean that life is always fair.

 Just because God

 is still preparing your king/queen,

 doesn't mean that you're not already a

 queen/king.

 Just because your situation

 doesn't seem to be progressing right now,

 doesn't mean you need to change a thing.

 Keep shining,

 Keep running,

 Keep hoping,

 Keep praying,

 Keep being exactly what you are already,

 COMPLETE.