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                                              ... THE ART OF LETTING GO...

When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay. Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are bad people, it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to
raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead. You've got to know when it's over.

Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe
in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging
people to stay. Let them go.

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for
your life, then you need to LET IT GO.

If you are still holding on to hurts and pains in the past, LET IT GO.
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth, LET IT GO.
If someone has angered you, LET IT GO.

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge, LET IT GO.
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction, LET IT GO.
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents, LET IT GO.

If you have a bad attitude, LET IT GO.
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better, LET IT GO.
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him, LET IT GO.

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship, LET IT GO!
If you keep trying to help others who doesn't even try to help themselves, LET THEM GO!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed, LET IT GO! ~~

                             ++ ALBERT EINSTEIN’S THEORY OF LIFE & LOVE ++

    Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns. Go for the man/woman in deeds and not for the man of words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the one you love but the one who loves you more. The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance far enough to allow the person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being.

TO LET GO OF SOMEONE DOESN’T MEAN YOU HAVE TO STOP LOVING, IT ONLY MEANS THAT YOU ALLOW THAT PERSON TO FIND HIS OWN HAPPINESS WITHOUT EXPECTING HIM/HER TO COME BACK.

    Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself free from all bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart. Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it. You may find peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness comes only with open acceptance of what reality is today.

    There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship, we start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves. You don’t have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe me; you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving.

    Don’t let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow: if you lose love that doesn’t mean that you failed in love. Cry if you have to, but make it sure that tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.
There are two ways to live your life:

One is as though nothing is a miracle... The other is though everything in life is a miracle.. ++