
Questions? Comments? Do you think I'm full of myself? Email me or put a message in the cbox, just tell me nicely. I don't mind if you want to debate, I just don't like people who think they know everything. I know that I don't.
Thanks for listening to me rant ^___^
Still, I haven't talked about other abusive relationships. Don't worry, I didn't forget about it. That, although not as bad, is used quite a lot more. It is annoying that people seem to think that after being hit, the abuser actually loves the other person. Really, people can't just assume that just because the guy (as it is usually male; I have yet to see a female abuser being written about, not that that doesn't happen) doesn't know how to show affection, he has to hit (or rape... but I think I already said that...) her. Now, if you're saying, "But they're fighters!" then know that I don't have a problem with that. Sparring is different from abuse. It isn't just one giving out the damage (usually) and even if only one's getting hurt most, at least they're both trying to hit each other. I write fighters all the time, and I understand that practicing is just a part of what they do. It's when they are "in love" but the guy beats her every day that really gets to me. Also, if someone has been abused, they are not usually happy with physical contact. They should be somewhat squeamish when people do too much to them. It's just a part of the human psyche after bad things happen to be a little... off.
I'm going to end with one last rant. It's an often overlooked part of stories, and though I don't look down upon it as much as on rape, it is considered a form of rape, so I believe it should be talked about a little. If you have a sixteen-year-old sleep with a 1000-year-old demon/elf/faerie/peppermint prince (oh yeah, and sometimes the occasional human), then you just had your favorite male character commit rape. Yes, that's right, I'm talking about pedophilia, or when someone overage sleeps with a child. Truthfully, though, what type of a person would want to sleep with someone so young and na�ve? If you could see me, you'd see me shaking my head at the people who do that. I know I could rant for pages and pages on this, but I think this little description will suffice. Just... if you write these things, think of this in the future and I'll be happy.
Now, I feel I need to say this, as I can't talk about rape and abuse without bringing this up. If you have been raped (in any form) or abused, please tell someone. Really, this doesn't happen to everyone, and I'm sure there are people who want to help you. Tell the police, or at the very least, someone close to you. Sorry, I'm done with that, I promise ^___^

Questions? Comments? Do you think I'm full of myself? Email me, just tell me nicely. I don't mind if you want to debate, I just don't like people who think they know everything. I know that I don't.
Thanks for listening to me rant ^___^