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Who is to blame? Wrestling
or Parents?: Recently I saw a show on CourtTV
in which they indicated that several children died
while imitating wrestling moves they had seen on TV.
The show indicated that wrestling is directed
at children, and that it's over the top violence caused
children to act out the moves without them knowing
what the out come could be.
I feel this is crap. The problem
does not lie with wrestling. Nor does it lie with
Video games, or Beavis and Butthead, Heavy
Metal, or Rap music. It is easy for parents to blame others
then face the fact that the problem lies with them.
We are in a society where parents no longer wish
to take responsibility of their children. They
do not discipline or control what their children do.
If they did, then the kids would know that what
they see while watching wrestling is NOT real,
but is acting.
Further, as I think back at my childhood,
my parents were not my best friends. They were
parents. They controlled what I could or could
not do. That is what being a parent is all
about. Setting boundaries, limitations and most
importantly, saying "no". Every time
I hear a story in the news how music made some kid kill
his friends, or how watching Beavis and Butthead made
a child set a house on fire, I have to ask "Where
in the HELL were the parents?"
Unfortunately, I think as long as
we have lawyers and ignorant people, we will continue
to have lawsuits blaming everyone but the actual culprit.
If we ever want to put an end to this, we need
to start placing the blame where it lies. With
the parents. If a child hurts someone, the
parents should be held accountable as well as the child
(depending upon it's age.) Make child raising
a mandatory class that people have to take prior to
having a child. I had to go through classes before
I got married, why not make potentially new parents
go through the same thing?
Any ways enough on this topic. Let
me know what you think.
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