Tinatwo

Tina is "dating" loser Nr 25 now....he fits into the first of the four Loser categories...Meaning he's already got a girlfriend.
He also fits into categorie Nr4, meaning he's a loser period!
This guy makes me sick, he has already got a girlfriend but he doesn't life with her..he only meets her on the weekends, so during the week he hangs out with Tina.
Tina is completely, madly in love with him! She knows he's got a girlfriend but still wants him to be hers soooooooo fucking bad.
This situation has been going on for about 2 months now (Yes indeed a new record).

Why do I tell you guys this now? Well....I was hanging out with Tina and her brother and his girlfriend yesterday (Both very nice people but that's beside the point), they had come over from Sweden to spend some time with Tina...Yesterday was their last night and we were in the pub..Tina left us at a certain point to "pickup her mobile phone", we all knew she left so she could be with Asshole Nr25..I had my doubts about this move, for I think it's just not cool but anyways.
When the pub was about to close her brother, his girlfriend, a friend of mine and me went to Tina's place (Where Tina's brother was staying)..and there I bumped into Asshole Nr25 again.

He had the "King of the hill" thing going, lying back on the couch...relaxed..very happy with himself...After Tina picked up her phone, she had decided to take a shower and all that, so she had really tried looking good and all that stuff...
As soon as I saw this combination I thought "I have got to get out of here!" My friend, Tina's brother and his girlfriend thought the same! My friend and i left immediatlybut first Tina gave me a hug (one of them bye bye hugs you get from friends) and that's when it happened.....
I GOT SICK!!! Almost literally! Tina almost made me throw up!.. Now don't get me wrong..I love being hugged by Tina..but yesterday's scene really disgusted me.

Tina deserves better then this! She is very attractive and smart..ahh Hell I don't even have to come up with reasons why...EVERYBODY deserves better then this!
A lying cheating weasel on her couch..and she actually left her brother (whom she really loves) in the pub because she 'd rather be with that bum??? ARE YOU FUCKING OUT OF YOUR MIND??? YOU'RE FUCKING MONDAY THROUGH FRIDAY PUSSY!!! And that's all you are!!!

Now Asshole Nr25. has had the same girlfriend for a couple of years now and he is not going to break up with her..that much is clear. but Tina just doesn't get that.

Yesterdays scene really made me sick..let me put it this way..I got home 10 minutes later and went to bed at 12...it's 3:14 now and I'm still awake..wide awake...thoughts running through my head all the time..

This hurts! It really sucks to see someone you love abuse herself like this..and then expecting you to pick up the pieces when it goes wrong (and it always does)....
I can not keep this shit up much longer, and I have considered giving Tina an ultimatum.."Either get your shit together or leave me the fuck alone".but that would go against everything I believe friends should be...I don't want my friends to ask me to change so how can I do that to mine? And I couldn't leave Tina out there alone anyways.

I spoke about it with that friend of mine when we went home yesterday..he's about just as close to Tina as I am and I know he feels the same way...we figured the following;

One of the reasons Tina picks such Fuckedup boyfriends is because they don't have to be boyfriends! Think about it; Being someones boyfriend means you have got to go through all the crap your girlfriend is going through..the times she happy..the times she's sad...all the problems she's having..that shit needs to be solved..that's what boyfriends do! Tina's "friends" don't have to because me and my friend take care of all her crap...

When Tina is thinking of buying a house she asks me to come with her...When Tina needs a ride to the airport, she asks my friend....When Tina needs to move..she asks us! When Tina is out of money, she borrows from us! When Tina is upset, she talks to us! When Tina needs shit done, she asks us!
These guys are not her boyfriends! We are! We just don't sleep with her! Asshole Nr25. gets away with being asshole Nr25. because Tina doesn't see this.

If Tina reads this (and she will) and I haven't explained it to her in person yet (Tina has a way of avoiding these talks)..I hope she will think about it!.
You are "dating" a guy that already has a girlfriend and does nothing for you! And you think he's good for you!?!

Now I don't wanna say friends aren't there to help eachother out every now and again..I am always willing to help my friends out...but think about one thing for once in your GodDamn life and for once be honest with yourself....

Yesterday really made me sick..Literally..and I couldn't sleep..and it hurt to see this happen..I really won't put up with this crap much longer because I simply can't take it..
I don't do ultimatums and I don't do threats, I am just stating the facts as I see them.....One day you're gonna find yourself in some shit and I won't be there to get you out of it...and then you'll find that Asshole Nr25. won't be there for you because he never has! He'll be sitting with his "Real" girlfriend in their nice cozy counciltax home..taking care of "his real family".