KE

Hey Peter, I would just like to say that I love your page. I think it's very cool that you put all this stuff on there. there are many webpages out there but very few people use their own name.

Let me tell you the following story, I am not making this up by the way this really happened to me.

I am a 25 Year old guy from (name of the city) in the U.S. and had never ever had a girlfriend in my life untill I was 23.
Not because I didn't want one, there are plenty of women that are very cute and stuff, but for some reason we always ended up being friends.
This always used to bother me a lot, as you can problably imagine.
Most of the times my friends would start dating these women eventually and I would give up (As a guy should, you don't hit on your friends girlfriend).

I am not ugly, I am a nice guy and I am also pretty smart. I usedto go to Uni in (Name of the city) and even there I could never get a date.I have asked a lot of girls out, but they always turned me down with the "I consider you a brother or a friend" line...This really Sucks!, what sucks most of all though is that my dad got into some pretty good money all of a sudden (lottery money) I don't know if you know how the lotteries work over here, but he will get about 9 million US dollars per year for the next 10 years.
I guess you could say we are pretty lucky.

My friends thought it was pretty cool at first, and so did I. My dad bought me a car and a nice appartment off campus and everything was great.
I met a girl, or did she meet me?, and we started dating...I had seen her around campus a couple of times but I thought she was way out of my league.
This was my first girlfriend EVER (!), and it was really cool at first. We hung out a lot and as I had plenty of money (My dad shared the money with My mother, My sister and Me) we could always go to nice places. She even went on holiday with me and my family.

I eally fell in love with her. Then when we were dating for about 3 months I started thinking, Is she after my money? (I had lost a couple of friends by that time already because they were jealous, so I started being more carefull) One of my true friends told me that I was spending too much money on her and that she was only after my cash. so I decided to slow down the spending a bit. winning money is quite nice, but after a month or two you just want to get back with your "normal" life and slow down a bit, you know? Stay in instead of always going out and just get back to school and stuff.
She started to cool down pretty fast when I did that,..After a while she asked me why we didn't go to any fancy restaurants and all that, and I told her that I just wanted to stay in and get my degree and stuff.
This went fine for about a week, and after that she stopped calling me, I called her all the time and then one night she said she wanted to break up.
I was really hurt, but sometimes things just don't workout I guess. So I wasn't happy but what can you do? She made it really clear that she didn't want to see me again.
I have always been nice and decent and I thought we got a long very well, so this really came as a surprise to me...the only thing that had changed was that I stopped spending a lot of money.

Then a friend of mine told me that she had been hogging (selling) all the stuff I bought her immediatly after I gave it to her. she would wear earrings and stuff once and then sell it!
When I asked her about this she said she never sold it, so then I asked why she never wore it anymore (Expecting the "It brings back too many memories" answer) But then she admitted that she was only dating me for the money!
You can't imagine how I felt when hearing this, the first girl I had ever dated only dated me because of the money! This really put me off women for a while, I had become the laughing stock of the whole Uni as she had told everybody about what she did. For some reason, she was cool for doing this and I was the loser! My friends, or I thought they were, stopped hanging out with me there so after a while I moved to a different University.
I haven't told anybody here that I have got some money, and now the same thing happened. I get turned down by all the girls that I asked out!
It's been over 1,5 years now that I have had a girlfriend and my interest in women has gone below freezing point..Whenever I see a girl I immediatly think "Well if she goes out with me then she knows about my money" so I stopped asking them out after a while.
You have no idea, how much this sucks! I don't go out anymore, I always used to go out, I i hhave lost most of my friends.

Can you maybe tell me if all women are like this? And why?
When I read your page, and other, I can see that women all over the world are like this now but I feel that it's even worse where I live.

K.E.

P.S if you post this please don't put my email adress on your page as I am afraid some people might see it and then it would start all over again.