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So, who was Saint Valentine and
how did he become associated with this ancient rite? Today, the Catholic Church
recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of
whom were martyred. One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served
during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single
men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed
marriage for young men - his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing
the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages
for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius
ordered that he be put to death. Other stories suggest that Valentine may have
been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where
they were often beaten and tortured.

According to one legend,
Valentine actually sent the first "Valentine" greeting himself. While
in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl - who
may have been his jailor's daughter - who visited him during his confinement.
Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed
"From your Valentine", an expression that is still in use today.
Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly
emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic
figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most
popular saints in England and France.

While some believe that
Valentine's Day is celebrated in the middle of February to commemorate the
anniversary of Valentine's death or burial - which probably occurred around 270
AD - others claim that the Christian church may have decided to celebrate
Valentine's feast day in the middle of February in an effort to
"christianize" celebrations of the pagan Lupercalia festival. In
ancient Rome, February was the official beginning of spring and was considered a
time for purification. Houses were ritually cleansed by sweeping them out and
then sprinkling salt and a type of wheat called spelt throughout their
interiors. Lupercalia, which began at the ides of February, February 15, was a
fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, as well as
to the Roman founders Romulus and Remus. To begin the festival, members of the
Luperci, an order of Roman priests, would gather at the sacred cave where the
infants Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome, were believed to have been
cared for by a she-wolf or lupa. The priests would then sacrifice a goat, for
fertility, and a dog, for purification. The boys then sliced the goat's hide
into strips, dipped them in the sacrificial blood and took to the streets,
gently slapping both women and fields of crops with the goat hide strips. Far
from being fearful, Roman women welcomed being touched with the hides because it
was believed the strips would make them more fertile in the coming year. Later
in the day, according to legend, all the young women in the city would place
their names in a big urn. The city's bachelors would then each choose a name out
of the urn and become paired for the year with his chosen woman. These matches
often ended in marriage.

Pope Gelasius declared February
14 St. Valentine's Day around 498 A.D. The Roman "lottery" system for
romantic pairing was deemed un-Christian and outlawed. Later, during the Middle
Ages, it was commonly believed in France and England that February 14 was the
beginning of bird's mating season, which added to the idea that the middle of
February - Valentine's Day - should be a day for romance.
The oldest known Valentine still in existence today was a poem written by
Charles, Duke of Orleans to his wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of
London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt. The greeting, which was
written in 1415, is part of the manuscript collection of the British Library in
London, England. Several years later, it is believed that King Henry V hired a
writer named John Lydgate to compose a Valentine note to Catherine of Valois.

In Great Britain, Valentine's Day
began to be popularly celebrated around the seventeenth century. By the middle
of the eighteenth century, it was common for friends and lovers in all social
classes to exchange small tokens of affection or handwritten notes. By the end
of the century, printed cards began to replace written letters due to
improvements in printing technology. Ready-made cards were an easy way for
people to express their emotions in a time when direct expression of one's
feelings was discouraged. Cheaper postage rates also contributed to an increase
in the popularity of sending Valentine's Day greetings. Americans probably began
exchanging hand-made valentines in the early 1700s. In the 1840s, Esther A.
Howland began to sell the first mass-produced valentines in America.

According to the Greeting Card
Association, an estimated one billion valentine cards are sent each year, making
Valentine's Day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year. (An
estimated 2.6 billion cards are sent for Christmas.) Approximately 85 percent of
all valentines are purchased by women. In addition to the United States,
Valentine's Day is celebrated in Canada, Mexico, the United Kingdom, France, and
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