What should a person do when faced with caring for someone more then what that person cares for you? I'm not really saying that it's bad or it's good. I'm not sure either way. That's why I'm thinking about it. I'm not meaning when one person cares 100% and the other doesn't cares at all. Both people care but not at the same amount. Is it fair to each other? I've been faced with that with my husband. I cared more for him and his wants then he did for me. If I am faced with that again should I stay? Or should I go? I'm not sure how to answer that question. It's on my mind from time to time.