| Position Vacant Yes I know, searching for a Sub/slave can be an arduous and emotionally draining task. I wonder how I can be complete without that special 'one' to serve me. I have had many dissapointments in the past with those that were not what they portrayed themselves to be, hence this page outlining my ideal. Bear in mind though I am flexable and am not looking for the 'perfect' sub/slave. I am more than willing to invest the time and energy to train someone that truely has the desire within themselves to serve completly. What I look for in a submissive: I am not in search of only a play partner. Ultimately, I seek a total power exchange, but it is my feeling that such relationships should not be entered into casually so I insist on progressing at a pace that is comfortable for all involved. Ideally, I would prefer someone who has at least some real time experience and someone who understands the challenges, responsibilities and rewards of real life ownership. That said, I am also very willing to assist someone that is exploring themselves and the desires they feel. Physical appearance is not very important to me,. Location is less important as you would need to be prepared to relocate as the relationship progresses. I am flexible and able to compliment most situations. Age and education is not a contributing factor. A genuine desire to serve and a willingness to learn and grow is. Those that wish to explore their desires are welcome, providing that exploration is honest and with sincerity. What I do not negotiate on: I am not interested in men or women who are married or who have partners. I am not interested in purely cyber or phone relationships. I do not cyber or send photos containing pornography over the internet. What I expect in a submissive: I am not seeking a "do me" slave and they need to realize that a Domme is not there to please them or to make their every fantasy a reality. They needs to have a true desire to serve and to gain the approval of a sincere woman who they can respect and trust. Their focus should be on pleasing the Mistress and not on "getting done." They needs to be a giver, not a taker. They need to understand that real life service involves real work and real submission and be firmly rooted in that reality. As a submissive, they should gain pleasure from pleasing The Mistress. They should not be one to do something merely for the show of it or in order to get attention from others. They should have the ability to integrate a power-exchange relationship with vanilla life. I want a submissive that is flexible in their preferences. "Okay, I don't mean to come across like I am looking for a perfect person or anything. I�m not!!! I will consider training or advising any that genuinely want assistance or advice. I don't want you to think I�m just going to lay down a bunch of demands without expecting to give, either." I have much to offer the right submissive and much to bring to a relationship. I am a good listener and do not expect my submissive to be invulnerable to what happens in real life. I am nurturing and stabilizing, functioning as a friend as well as a Mistress. With patience I guide and teach my submissive to be everything they can be! I will provide you with accomodation, food and clothing, in an environment conducive to learning and personal growth. I do not expect you to work outside my home but if that is something that you really need to do for yourself then I am willing to discuss it with you. I encourage further education and in the past have paid to expand my slaves formal education. My feelings on negotiation and the "Safe Sane Consensual" creedo are somewhat non-mainstream. By no stretch of the imagination could they be called Politically Correct. I am turned off by over-negotiation and am more comfortable with the phrase "Risk Aware". Hard Limits: Absolutely no kids (minors). Absolutely no activity with non-consenting persons. Absolutely no scat. No play that results in or puts anyone at risk of serious bodily harm. No play that requires a trip to the emergency room. No play that results in the need to be on long term medication. No broken bones, amputations and internal injuries. Now do you feel that you can identify with the above, do you have a genuine desire to serve, do you want to be owned. If you answered yes to these questions then I would like to talk to you soon. You may contact me in the first instance by email, telling me a little about yourself. Email: Lady Gayla - [email protected] Back to Site Index |