THE MAN I LOVE
1. Will be deeply spiritual
2. Will care about his health, not drink too much, smoke, do drugs(pot is a drug) , or eat tons of junkfood.
3. Has goals and aspirations.
4. Values Higher Education
5. Values the arts
6. Has a strong sense of family and community
7. Doesn't have a narrow view of beauty
8. Is open minded and tolerant, but firm in his own values
9. Is patient
10. Is loving and affectionate
11. Can express love creatively
12. Has a sense of balance, can plan for the future and be spontanious when needed
13. Has a healthy realistic self image
14. Respects my ideas and feelings
15. Is a good listner
16. Can communicate his feelings and conserns in a healthy loving manner
17. Is responsible for his actions
18. Is a good friend and partner
19. Has a positive outlook on life
20. Conquers his fears
21. Loves all kinds of music
22. Has a healthy attitude about money, isn't materialistic, but can save
23. HE CAN DANCE AND LOVES TO GO OUT DANCING!!!!!!! (even if he's a bad dancer he makes a go of it)
24. Enjoys travelling and experiencing new things
25. Is versatile in his style of dress
26. Shows intrest in things that are important to me and encourages me to follow my dreams
27. Is secure in his manhood, so he doesn't compete with or become jealous of other men i know
28. Has a pro-woman attitude about sex (likes me to lead sometimes)
29. Wants children
30. Likes to read
31. Is very intelligent but does not put down those who are not
32. Channels his anger constuctively
33. Is truthful
34. Believes in the sharing in the upkeep of the relationship
35. Does not degrade women
36. Is creative, if not, handy in some way
37. Sees the importance of helping others, and gives to the less fortunate
38. Has close friends
39. Is independent, can cook, clean, laundry and rear children on his own
40. Isn't threatened by my independence, doesnt throw fits when I want to spend time alone or with my friends
41. Does well in social situations, is outgoing without being annoying or needy
42. Is motivated. Can finish what he starts
43. Can make time to relax and vacation
44. Doesn't break promises
45. Is a little sentimental, and remembers anniversaries and birthdays
46. Believes in the power of LOVE
47. Has integrity
48. Isn't overly critical or superficial
49. Is a good kisser
50. Is handsome to me