Wow Anil...that last statement was pretty strong.

Not all westerners believe that way or do this...but sadly to say it happens....but to say that it dosnet happen in other countries as much is foolish. No matter were u go there is corruption...wheather it be in the form of sex or violence...in some countries they have more that one wife and some cauncubines.....some countries they burn their wives to death if she dose not please them....so corruption is everywhere.

I am ashamed of my country the way they so easily dismiss the sanctity of marriage.....the true meaning of sex and that it should be only made between husband and wife, where like u said, it can have meaning and respect...is so true and I agree with that....unfortunately society dictates peoples behavior...human nature is corrupt and b/c of Americas Free Society...letting humans run free of their ideas and feelings leads to things like this.

But I am happy in that at least I have a choice...to have my own religion, to be Free...and to understand the institution of marriage.

Aisha u r right in all countries it happens. I start the blog with the remark that it is not that all western people are bad and all in india are sants.Here too incidents like that happen but difference is of the numbers here in few numbers and there in more. Our society has also many bad things i will also come to that in my writings. U r right corruption is everywhere and it is male dominated world. U can say women is independent in
West but males do not give them respect often means use them for physical pleasure. Here too women is sufferer in other ways. Here cast, religion problems and corruption is in abundance. U r also right that human nature is corrupt but here the fear of society keep them in check. But few here too cross the line. In between all this the children which we bring into the world become innocent victims. They want both mother and father. Mother is mother nobody can take her place and father has also a important part to play in bringing up of children. The child we bring in the world is our responsibily i.e. of both husband and wife.And a lot of difference between making love and making sex.wen male and female love eachother they ended at sexual relations but here 90% love and 10% sex the opposite is in case of sex that is 90% sex and 10% love.U feel happy even u see the person u love and wen u go for physical relations u do not know.They try to make eachother hapy but in other case they try to use other for their satisfaction.Freedom is good when everybody feel his/her responsibility towards society. But the human nature do not permit all to do this only few can understand it. I also think good and bad people are in every country and my country no exception- anil











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Thanks for that response Anil.....you are very open minded...ur a good man...one of the exceptions...lol.