"Lessons in Love"
When you think of your past love, you may view
it as a failure. But when you find a new love,
you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love,
it doesn`t really matter who won or who lost.
What is important is you know when to hold on and
when to let go! You know you really love someone when
you want him or her to be happy, even if their
happiness means that you`re not part of it.
Everything happens for the best.
If the person you love doesn`t love you back,
don`t be afraid to love someone else again, for
you`ll never know unless you give it a try. You`ll
never love a person you love unless you risk for
love. Love strives in hurting. If you don`t get
hurt, you don`t learn how to love.
The greatest irony of love is letting go
when you need to hold on and holding on when you need
to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are
destined to find someone else who can love us
even more than we can love ourselves.
To love is to risk rejection, to live is to
risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risks
must be taken because the greatest hazard in
life is to risk nothing! To love is to risk not to be loved
in return.
Loving people means giving them the freedom who they
choose to be and where they choose to be.
Loving someone means giving him the freedom to
find his way, whether it leads towards you or away
from you. Only love can hurt your
heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only
love can make you cry and only love knows why. If
you`re not ready to cry, if you`re not ready to take
the risk, if you`re not ready to feel the pain,
then you`re not ready to fall in love. There was a
timein our lives when we became afraid to fall in
love `coz every time we do, we get hurt, then i
figured that`s why it`s called falling in love.
"iT`s FuNnY cOz tHe HeArT iS fOuNd iN tHe cEnTeR oF tHe cHeSt
cAviTy, bUt iT bEaTs oN tHe LeFt sIdE. tHaT iS pRoBaBLy wHy
tHe HeArT iSn`T aLwaYs RiGhT"
"It rEaLLy hurTs to faLL in loVe wiTh yOuR frIeNd cOz yoU keEp
oN hiDinG yoUr feELinGs, aVoidiNg iT aS muCh as yoU cAn tiLL
yoU cRy yOuR heArT ouT foR feAr oF loSinG a fRieNd aNd a loVe
yOu neVeR reALLy haD."
"We wOuLdn`T haVe bEeN gIveN tHe cApaciTy tO dReaM iF wE dIdn`T
haVe thE CapAcitY To aChieVe."
"FuNnY hOw We sEt quALificAtioNs fOR thE rigHt perSon to loVe,
bUt iN tHe bAck of oUr mInds, wE kNow tHat thE pErSon wE trULy
lOve wiLL aLwaYs bE an eXcepTioN."
"ThInk aNd tAke tImE to liSteN tO yOUr hEarT. SoMetiMesyOu nEeD
noT aSk yOuRseLf wHo yoU lovE moRe buT aSk whO rEaLLy maKes yOu
haPPy anD whO maKes YoU feEL loVed."
"ThEmOst cRueL tHiNg thAt a gUy coULd dO to a gIrL iS to maKe
heR faLL in lOve whEn he dOesN�t inTenD to caTch hEr faLL."
"Loving involves two phases. The first intuitive one is loving
the person because of who he/she is. The second nobler one is
IS loving the person in spite of who he/she IS NOT. The first
one sparks love. The second one makes it last..."
~ Tesa Arcilla ~
"Lessons in Love"
When you think of your past love, you may view
it as a failure. But when you find a new love,
you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love,
it doesn`t really matter who won or who lost.
What is important is you know when to hold on and
when to let go! You know you really love someone when
you want him or her to be happy, even if their
happiness means that you`re not part of it.
Everything happens for the best.
If the person you love doesn`t love you back,
don`t be afraid to love someone else again, for
you`ll never know unless you give it a try. You`ll
never love a person you love unless you risk for
love. Love strives in hurting. If you don`t get
hurt, you don`t learn how to love.
The greatest irony of love is letting go
when you need to hold on and holding on when you need
to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are
destined to find someone else who can love us
even more than we can love ourselves.
To love is to risk rejection, to live is to
risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risks
must be taken because the greatest hazard in
life is to risk nothing! To love is to risk not to be loved
in return.
Loving people means giving them the freedom who they
choose to be and where they choose to be.
Loving someone means giving him the freedom to
find his way, whether it leads towards you or away
from you. Only love can hurt your
heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only
love can make you cry and only love knows why. If
you`re not ready to cry, if you`re not ready to take
the risk, if you`re not ready to feel the pain,
then you`re not ready to fall in love. There was a
timein our lives when we became afraid to fall in
love `coz every time we do, we get hurt, then i
figured that`s why it`s called falling in love.
"iT`s FuNnY cOz tHe HeArT iS fOuNd iN tHe cEnTeR oF tHe cHeSt cAviTy, bUt iT bEaTs oN tHe LeFt sIdE. tHaT iS pRoBaBLy wHy tHe HeArT iSn`T aLwaYs RiGhT" "It rEaLLy hurTs to faLL in loVe wiTh yOuR frIeNd cOz yoU keEp oN hiDinG yoUr feELinGs, aVoidiNg iT aS muCh as yoU cAn tiLL yoU cRy yOuR heArT ouT foR feAr oF loSinG a fRieNd aNd a loVe yOu neVeR reALLy haD." "We wOuLdn`T haVe bEeN gIveN tHe cApaciTy tO dReaM iF wE dIdn`T haVe thE CapAcitY To aChieVe." "FuNnY hOw We sEt quALificAtioNs fOR thE rigHt perSon to loVe, bUt iN tHe bAck of oUr mInds, wE kNow tHat thE pErSon wE trULy lOve wiLL aLwaYs bE an eXcepTioN." "ThInk aNd tAke tImE to liSteN tO yOUr hEarT. SoMetiMesyOu nEeD noT aSk yOuRseLf wHo yoU lovE moRe buT aSk whO rEaLLy maKes yOu haPPy anD whO maKes YoU feEL loVed." "ThEmOst cRueL tHiNg thAt a gUy coULd dO to a gIrL iS to maKe heR faLL in lOve whEn he dOesN�t inTenD to caTch hEr faLL." "Loving involves two phases. The first intuitive one is loving the person because of who he/she is. The second nobler one is IS loving the person in spite of who he/she IS NOT. The first one sparks love. The second one makes it last..." ~ Tesa Arcilla ~