Equipment:
2 candles
red wine
ground cinnamon
2 shallow bowls/cups

light the candles. pour some wine in the bowls. each person start warming their bowl of wine over a candle. add a pinch of cinnamon. swirl the bowls to mix cinnamon while finishing the warming. each person breathe into both bowls. toast-"May the union of man and woman bring pleasure andhappiness to both."

Touch bowls. drink. do what comes naturally. :)