We must let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.
There are no accidents in life.

I am a fan of planning for my future but still when it really comes to the real situation in my life, I offer all my works to God. I let him do whatever He likes me to do by just having trust and faith on Him. I believe that there are no such thing as accidents. God has already planned on everything before anything happens. Destiny, fate or whatsoever, if it's supposed to happen then it will happen. We may not agree on these things but God has a better plan for our lives. We must just accept it and just go with the flow. And one thing that I always keep on my mind is that "Everything happens for a reason" and you too must also remember that.