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Some of the most poignant moments I spend as a
veterinarian are those spent with my clients
assisting the transition of my animal patients from
this world to the next. When living becomes a
burden, whether from pain or loss of normal
functions, I can help a family by ensuring that their
beloved pet has an easy passing. Making this final
decision is painful, and I have often felt powerless
to comfort the grieving owners. That was before
I met Shane.
I had been called to examine a ten-year-old blue
heeler named Belker who had developed a serious
health problem. The dog's owners - Ron, his wife,
Lisa, and their little boy, Shane - were all very
attached to Belker and they were hoping for a
miracle. I examined Belker and found he was dying of
cancer.
I told the family there were no miracles left for
Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia
procedure for the old dog in their home. As we made
arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it
would be good for the four- year-old Shane to observe
the procedure. They felt Shane could learn something
from the experience.
The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat
as Belker's family surrounded him. Shane seemed so
calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I
wondered if he understood what was going on.
Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away.
The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition
without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together
for a while after Belker's death, wondering aloud
about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than
human lives.
Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, "I
know why."
Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his
mouth next stunned me - I'd never heard a more
comforting explanation.
He said, "Everybody is born so that they can learn
how to live a good life - like loving everybody and
being nice, right?" The four-year-old continued,
"Well, animals already know how to do that, so they
don't have to stay as long."
By Robin Downing, D.V.M. |