| First of all let me say that these are my own thoughts and feelings on this subject. ~ submission ~ Is it a gift? Yes, i belive it is because one is giving of themselves to Another. They are giving their mind... No secrets... Telling and sharing all their feelings, thoughts, desires and dreams. They are giving their bodies... Placing their being in Another's care... To be looked after, cherished and used however They wish and desire. They are giving their heart and trust... Trusting and believing that they will be loved and cherished... protected and taught... Giving all with total trust... Yes...a very precious gift indeed. ~ submissive or slave? ~ I have heard countless times that the differance between a submissive and a slave is the fact that a submissive has choices and a slave does not. A submissive is able to set limits and have safewords. A slave does not ask questions she just gives/does as told. My thoughts? I belive that any submissive heart can be slave when she is with the right One. If you are with the One that is right for you. They will know your limits... They will have pretty much the same likes and dislikes... They will know and learn how to read your body. They will know what to push for and how far to push/guide... In the beginning of any relationship there will be fear and doubt no matter how much you desire to trust or THINK you trust. You may say and feel that you can trust but when it comes right down to it there are times that your BODY and MIND has to LEARN to trust. No matter how much you desire to do something... Or how badly you desire to please Him. At least...that is how it is for me... Yes i do have questions but usually those happen BEFORE when we are discussing O/our likes and dislikes or deepest darkest desires and dreams. There are times that i have to be told a few times to do something . But it is always because i am feeling shy or fearful of His reaction. My body and mind is still learning to trust. But... i most always end up doing as He asks. Because i desire to be pleasing to Him and my desire outweighs the fear. He calls me His little slave. While others have told me i am neither slave orr submissive ~laughs~ My thoughts on what i am? I am a little girl, woman, slut, kitten, mommy, sister & friend with a slave heart who desires to please her Love Master Daddy Friend & Teacher ~ I am His in every way ~ korey_girl 2002 |
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