But You Look so Good!
The National Invisible Chronic Illness Awareness Week is comming. September 23-29, 2002. We seek to educate those that do not live with illness on how to reach out to those with health difficulties, what to say and not say how to encourage, and what practical needs can be met. For more information visit Invisible Illness web site and find out more. Also other realted links.
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What Not to Say:
Be aware of the fact that illness is not just a matter of attitude: Don't say, "When are you going to get rid of that cane." or "Did you know illness is caused by stress?"
Respect his/her limitations and be sensitive to them. Don't say, "A little walk might do you some good." or "No pain, no gain!" Only she/he knows her limites and they will likely change from day to day depending on many factors. What she/he could do yesterday may not be possible today. Don't qustion that.
What Not to Say:
Be honest. Say "I wish I knew the right thing to say, but I care and I am here if you need me."
Treat him/her as though she/he is still a whole person, despite his/her limitations. She/he wants to feel capable and in control. Ler him/her make the plans.
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