| EVALUATING ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP'S (Collins and Read) Name:________________ date:________________ On a scale please indicate the description that best characterizes you and the feelings you have in your interpersonal relationships by placing the number associated with the best description . 1. Not all characteristic 2. Mostly not characteristic 3. Partly characteristic 4. Mostly characteristic 5. Very characteristic 1. I find it difficult to allow myself to depend on others. _____ 2. People are never there when you need them. _____ 3. I am comfortable depending on others. _____ 4. I know that others will be there when I need them. _____ 5 I find it difficult to trust others completely. _____ 6. I'm not sure that I can always depend on others to be there when I need them. _____ 7. I do not often worry about being abandoned. _____ 8. I often worry that my partner does not really love me. _____ 9. I find others are reluctant to get as close as I would like. _____ 10. I often worry my partner will not want to stay with me. _____ 11. I want to merge completely with another person. _____ 12. My desire to merge sometimes scares people away. _____ 13. I find it relatively easy to get close to others. _____ 14. I do not often worry about someone getting to close to me. _____ 15. I am somewhat uncomfortable being close to others. _____ 16. I am nervous when someone gets too close. _____ 17. I am comfortable having others depend on me. _____ 18. Often, love partners want me to be more intimate that I feel comfortable being. _____ ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Norms Standard deviations dep ______ 18.3 4.7 1-6 anx ______ 16.2 5.1 7-12 cls ______ 21.2 4.8 13-18 |