Well
coming from a large rural family i'd have to say Family.You can pick your friends,
job,location, and spouse in life BUT you can't change bloodlines. No matter how hard the
feeling get between siblings you can't let it get so far under your skin that it rules
you. Let them do as they wish(or think is right) be supportive if you beleive in them, be
critical if you disagree but when it's all said and done, Guess what?
"your still blood,siblings,or whatever you were before" so live with it,deal
with it. Giz