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| THE TYPICAL LOVE SCALE 1. STAGE ONE IS WHEN ONE IS SINGLE AND CONTENT WHERE LIFE IS NORMAL NO HIGHS OR LOWS SOME MAY CALL THIS STABLE SOME MAY CALL THIS A BORING STAGE. 2. STAGE TWO WHEN SOMEONE HAS FOUND INTEREST IN ANOTHER AND THE DATING GAME BEGINS WHERE THE CLIMAX OF HAPPINESS, LOVE, SECURITY AND LIFE IS JUST PERFECT IS REPRESENTED BY THE RED SQUARE 3. STAGE THREE WHEN THINGS SEEMS SO PERFECT IT ALWAYS WILL GO DOWN HILL NO MATTER WHAT, "WHAT GOES UP MUST COME DOWN" 4. STAGE FOUR WHEN PEOPLE GET TOO CLOSE AND PERSONAL THINGS REVEAL AND MORE UNDERSTANDING OF EACHOTHER IS NEEDED WITH EFFORT SO THERFORE THE ROCKY SCALE OF UPS AND DOWNS, HIGHS AND LOWS 5. STAGE 5 CONTINUING TO THINGS SLOW DOWN, LOVE'S EMOTIONS DROPS FROM CLIMAX AND LOTS OF ARGUMENTS EVOLVE WHICH EACHOTHER DISCOVERIES MORE ABOUT WHAT THE REAL PARTNER IS ALL ABOUT AND LIFE'S LESSONS ARE LEARNED, SELF IMPROVEMENTS MADE, COMPATIBILITY DISCOVERED ACTUALLY NOT TO BE SO CALLED PERFECT LOVE LIFE AS BEFORE DURING CLIMAX 6. STAGE 6 WHEN THINGS GET VERY WORST LOTS OF ARGUMENTS CONTINUE OR BOTH HAVE COMMUNICATION BARRIERS AND BOTH STRUGGLES TO WORK THINGS OUT SO EVERYTHING FROM DAY TO DAY, WEEK TO WEEK, EMOTIONS ARE CONSTANTLY UP BECAUSE WANT TO WORK HARD TO SAVE RELATIONSHIP BUT DOWN BECAUSE IT IS BECOMING SUCH A HASSLE AND HEADACHE TO WORK THINGS THROUGH WHERE BELIEF OF WORKING OUT THIS RELATIONSHIP DROPS AND MANY CONTINUE ON TO ANOTHER NEW RELATIONSHIP INSTEAD OF UNTANGLING ALL THE KNOTS TOGETHER 7. STAGE 7 AT THE END OF EACH RELATIONSHIP IF ONE HAD BEEN SERIOUSLY IN LOVE AND INVOLVED WITH THE OTHER, ONE WILL FEEL DEPRESSED OR SEEMS LIKE THEY HAVE LOST THE OTHER HALF OF THEIR LIFE WHICH ONE MAY FEEL HOPELESS IN LOVE AND TAKES TIME TO BUILD ONE SELF'S SELF ESTEEM AND GET BACK TO BEING INDEPENDENTLY HAPPY AS A SINGLE PERSON TO BE CONTENT AND GET RID OF THE HABITS AND FORGET THE PAST OF THE RELATIONSHIP THAT SEEMS LIKE SUCH A FAILURE. 8. STAGE 8 HATRED OF THE OTHER FOR BETRAYING AND LEAVING THE RELATIONSHIP 9. STAGE 9 TIME OUT TO THINK ABOUT THINGS IN ORDER TO GET BACK TO CONTENT THIS STAGE IS VERY IMPORTANT FOR ONE IF MATURE ENOUGH TO LEARN ABOUT MISTAKES ONE HAS DONE AND THAT NEXT TIME AROUND HOW ONE CAN BE BETTER PERSON IF THIS STAGE IS NOT TAKEN INTO THOUGHT AND ONE RUSHES INTO ANOTHE RELATIONSHIP,THEN THE RELATIONSHIP WILL NOT BE STABLE NOR TRUE BECAUSE ONE LACKS IN THE FAITH OF TRUE LOVE AND THEREFORE EVENTHOUGH HAPPINESS MAY SHOW, USUALLY THIS STAGE IS WHERE PEOPLE DO THE ONE NIGHT STAND THING OR DATING GAME WITHOUT FINDING TRUE LOVE INTENTION OR ONE DOES NOT WANT TO PAY RESPONSIBILITY TO THE OTHER JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN OR AT LEAST THIS STAGE IS WHEN THE PERSON WANTS TO GET BUSY AND CRAZY AND GET THINGS OUT OF ONE'S HEAD BECAUSE ONE CANNOT DEAL WITH THE PAIN THAT DEEP DOWN ONE HAS FROM THE PREVIOUS LOVE 10. STAGE 10 WHEN ONE IS ABLE TO GET BACK TO CONTENT AND REALIZE AN END OF A RELATIONSHIP IS NOT REALLY THE END IT IS JUST SAY LIKE ONE PART OF A LIFE AND IT IS TOTALLY POSSIBLE TO BE BACK AGAIN WITH THE INDIVIDUAL THAT HAS JUST SPLIT UP WITH THEM, ONE IS CONSCIOUS , BUT TO BE SURE OF CONSCIOUSNESS ONE MUST UNDERSTAND THE RULES OF THE GAME OF LOVE, ONE PERSON IS NO DIFFERENT FROM ANOTHER PERSON THAT YOUF ALL IN LOVE, EVERYONE IN THIS WORLD IS JUST HUMAN AND ONE TYPE OF SPECIIES WHICH IS FILLED WITH EMOTIONS BECAUSE WE ARE BORN WITH THEM. IF ONE CANNOT FEEL EMOTIONS IS BECAUSE ONE HIDES FROM IT OR IS ONLY SUPRESSING WHAT ONE WAS BORN WITH AND NOT IMMORTAL, IMMORTAL AND MORTAL'S MAIN DIFFERENCE IS ONE DOES NOT HAS FEELINGS AND ONE HAS, WHICH THE ONE HAS WILL ALWAYS DIE MORE EASILY BECUASE OF UNHAPPINESS AND SORROWS INCLUDED IN EMOTIONS, THAT IS THE POISION TO END OUR LIVES. IMMORTALS ARE NOT REALLY LIVINGI IN ITHE MORTALS WORLD BECAUSE WE DO NOT LIVE WITH THEM BUT ONLY KNOW OF THEIR EXISTENCE. BECAUSE WE KNOW ONLY OF THEIR EXISTENCE WE WILL BELIVE THEY HAVE ENDLESS LIVES, BUT ONE RULE IS IN THIS UNIVERERSE OR LIFE, WHAT BORNS WILL DIE, WHAT STARTS WILL END, NO END NO BEGINNING SO THEREFOR IN THEIR LIVES IN THEIR WORLD THEY WILL ALSO DIE BUT WE DO NOT KNOW BECAUSE WE ARE DIFFERENT WORLDS. |
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