Pierre Elliott Trudeau
1919~2000
Justin Trudeau: Eulogy For His Father
Friends, Romans, countrymen...
I was about six years old when I went on my first official
trip. I was going with my father and my grandpa Sinclair up to
the North Pole.
It was a very glamorous destination. But the best thing
about it is that I was going to be spending lots of time with my
dad because in Ottawa he just worked so hard.
One day, we were in Alert, Canada's northern most point,
scientific military installation that seemed to consist entirely
of low shed-like buildings and warehouses.
Let's be honest. I was six. There were no brothers around
to play with and I was getting a little bored because dad still
somehow had a lot of work to do.
I remember a frozen, windswept Arctic afternoon when I was
bundled up into a Jeep and hustled out on a special top-secret
mission. I figured I was finally going to be let in on the
reason of this high-security Arctic base.
I was exactly right.
We drove slowly through and past the buildings, all of them
very gray and windy. We rounded a corner and came upon a red
one. We stopped. I got out of the Jeep and started to crunch
across towards the front door. I was told, no, to the window.
So I clambered over the snowbank, was boosted up to the
window, rubbed my sleeve against the frosty glass to see inside
and as my eyes adjusted to the gloom, I saw a figure, hunched
over one of many worktables that seemed very cluttered. He was
wearing a red suit with that furry white trim.
And that's when I understood just how powerful and
wonderful my father was.
Pierre Elliott Trudeau. The very words convey so many
things to so many people. Statesman, intellectual, professor,
adversary, outdoorsman, lawyer, journalist, author, prime
minister.
But more than anything, to me, he was dad.
And what a dad. He loved us with the passion and the
devotion that encompassed his life. He taught us to believe in
ourselves, to stand up for ourselves, to know ourselves and to
accept responsibility for ourselves.
We knew we were the luckiest kinds in the world. And we had
done nothing to actually deserve it.
It was instead something that we would have to spend the
rest of our lives to work very hard to live up to.
He gave us a lot of tools. We were taught to take nothing
for granted. He doted on us but didn't indulge.
Many people say he didn't suffer fools gladly, but I'll
have you know he had infinite patience with us.
He encouraged us to push ourselves, to test our limits, to
challenge anyone and anything.
There were certain basic principles that could never be
compromised.
As I guess it is for most kids, in Grade 3, it was always a
real treat to visit my dad at work.
As on previous visits this particular occasion included a
lunch at the parliamentary restaurant which always seemed to be
terribly important and full of serious people that I didn't
recognize.
But at eight, I was becoming politically aware. And I
recognized one whom I knew to be one of my father's chief rivals.
Thinking of pleasing my father, I told a joke about him - a
generic, silly little grade school thing.
My father looked at me sternly with that look I would learn
to know so well, and said: 'Justin, Never attack the individual.
We can be in total disagreement with someone without denigrating
them as a consequence.'
Saying that, he stood up and took me by the hand and
brought me over to introduce me to this man. He was a nice man
who was eating there with his daughter, a nice-looking blond
girl a little younger than I was.
He spoke to me in a friendly manner for a bit and it was at
that point that I understood that having opinions that are
different from those of another does not preclude one being
deserving of respect as an individual.
This simple tolerance and recognition of the real and
profound dimensions of each human being, regardless of beliefs,
origins, or values - that's what he expected of his children and
that's what he expected of our country.
He demanded this with love, love of his sons, love of his
country, and it's for this that we so love the letters, the
flowers, the dignity of the crowds, and we say to him, farewell.
All that to thank him for having loved us so much.
My father's fundamental belief never came from a text book.
It stemmed from his deep love for and faith in all Canadians and
over the past few days, with every card, every rose, every tear,
every wave and every pirouette, you return his love.
It means the world to Sacha and me.
Thank you.
We have gathered from coast to coast to coast, from one
ocean to another, united in our grief, to say goodbye.
But this is not the end. He left politics in '84. But he
came back for Meech. He came back for Charlottetown. He came
back to remind us of who we are and we're all capable of.
But he wont' be coming back anymore. It's all up to us, all
of us, now.
The woods are lovely, dark and deep. He has kept his
promises and earned his sleep.
I love you papa.