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����������� Recently I've been reading some books on eccentric people
and it has made me think. First what is "eccentric"? Oxford Reference
says it is being "unconventional and slightly strange" or "odd
or capricious in behavior or appearance". That's a decent definition but
doesn't really do it justice. I mean when one thinks of eccentric people, they
think of the things that really stand out as being different from the norm.
"Unconventional" is too muted, as is "slightly strange. And yes
odd is correct, but the guy that always insists on wearing a paisley bowtie is
odd, but not always eccentric. Capricious ("given
to sudden and unaccountable changes of mood or behavior"-again from the
OED) doesn't really work for me. We've all know people are just impulsive or
moody, that's not eccentric at all. So I checked the Oxford English Language Reference to see
where the word comes from. There it describes eccentric as "not central or
referable to a centre; irregular." Now there's a definition I can go with.
Someone who is not at the center (the center being the norm) or even better a
person who has no center, which in this case would be that thing in their head
that tells them that this isn't how people act; now that's eccentric. Even with
"irregular", it gives an idea that it's not just weird but somehow
wrong, like that irregular shirt I bought really cheap cause they couldn't sell
it in the big name store. If you look how people over history have treated the
eccentric, it's usually best with disdain, and at worse they are shunned and
looked upon as an outcast and part of the human garbage pile. ����������� So what qualifies someone as eccentric? I mean a guy like
Emperor Norton, who declared himself Emperor of the US, made laws, and
abolished both the house and senate (sadly, they never followed his orders...),
that's definitely an eccentric person. What about that guy that thinks demons
are telling him to kill people? Is that eccentric? Or is that just insane? In
this case it seems pretty easy to say that's not just eccentric, that's a
person who is seriously ill. But where does one draw the line? From my reading,
it is my impression that the eccentric actions are judged by the current
societal standards. This doesn't qualify as eccentric but it's a good example
and something that has always bugged me. When you look at old photographs and
paintings of our nation's founders and early leaders as well as religious
figures and learned people, you will see that many have long hair, long beards,
long goatees, interesting goatees (think Jefferson Davis), huge sideburns (I've
been trying to get my brother to grow a "Van Buren" for the longest
time), and other pileous (I admit, I used the thesaurus for that word, it just
means hairy) growths. Now it's not as bad, but there have been people, and
still are some, who think that long hair and beards are messy and unruly and
not fit for sophisticated society. Back in the day it apparently was considered
ok to grow these things while today certain people just find them abhorrent. So
what may be eccentric today, in the future or past may not be perceived as
eccentric, I would guess there have been many people who were thought of as
eccentric in their time but are seen as visionaries today (more on that later).
It is also clear that there are people who start out eccentric and who change
over time to something more serious. There have been quite a few eccentrics who
in their later life shut themselves up for contamination or other harm. They at
some point migrated from just being different to being ill. Though one could
look at some disorders that are treated like psychological illnesses and say
they are eccentric. Many people who have a phobia or are compulsive at certain
activities have been called eccentric, and if this doesn't seriously impair
their life, I think it is adequate. Over all eccentricity is in the eye of not
just the beholder but the beholder's view of what is acceptable in society.
That which oversteps this boundary is eccentric.� ����������� Another question that could be brought up is does the
eccentric know that they are perceived as eccentric? Based on the cases I have
read about I would think they majority know that they are perceived as unusual.
Whether they understand why, I am not totally certain, I do think some
understand and like the attention, while others do not and can't understand why
everyone doesn't see/do things like they do. Does that have any bearing on the
eccentric and their actions? Well since we usually see the actions of the
eccentric one could assume they don't care enough to change their actions but
that may not be necessarily true. There may be an untold number of people who
do try to hide what they think society will shun. I can tell you of a number of
people with an accent different from the region they live and try desperately
to lose it. So does any of that matter? Again if it doesn't impair the person's
state of living then what is the problem? I think that society gets the blame
for putting pressure on those who don't conform to their norms and pressuring
them to feel wrong when they get by perfectly fine. ����������� When you read though books and anecdotes of eccentrics
you find an astonishing number of these people were wealthy (self-made or
inherited) or seen as great minds in their field. Name a list of the most
prominent scientists, artists, musicians, or writers and you'll find a story
somewhere of how they were different. So with the very wealthy, does the wealth
bring about eccentric tendencies, or is it the eccentric tendencies that bring
about the ability to gain wealth? Well, oddly enough, both seem to take place.
Those people born into money (especially the British, Edith Sitwell has a
wonderful book on them) many times have been seen by the rest of society and
many times their peers as odd. I think a good argument could be made that their
wealth let them take advantage of eccentricity. Where if an idea entered my
head that would be outside the norm, I usually wouldn't have the time or money
to act upon it unless I was very dead-set, many of those born into wealth,
especially in the past, had all the time and money they needed so they could
build or buy or do just about anything that came to them. Where I may come up
with something and just pass on it because I can't afford to do it, they could,
on impulse, build that odd house or whatever they fancy. So what about those
that have created their wealth through business or other investments? Just
looking at the nature of many of these people (eccentric or not) they usually
have both a strong drive to do what they want, and an original way of thinking
or at least one that is ahead of everyone else. This doesn't mean these people
will necessarily be eccentric but it's easy to see how some would turn out so.
When they apply these attributes to all areas of their life, combined with the
ability to afford to do more than the normal person, it's easy for them to be
eccentric. The same attributes are true of inventors and scientists. The great
ones have to be able to think of something that no one else has thought of or
think of things in way not seen before and have the drive to make that idea
reality. So again it's pretty easy to see how people like Edison, Einstein and
Tesla, among others, were considered eccentric. They use that unique viewpoint
and drive in areas of daily life and you have Edison (I believe) covering all
his windows to protect himself from moonbeams at night. The same would also go
for people like politicians or in any field. If there is one thing that you can
say most eccentrics have in common it's a style of thinking. They seem to be
able not just think "outside the box" but think outside the building.
Combine that with a strong perseverance and you have the elements to create an
eccentric person. I don't want to forget artists, musicians, writers, and all
those in the creative endeavors. Again to have the person that creates those
great original pieces you need someone who thinks very originally and doesn't
mind trying new things, despite what critics say. How many artists, composers,
and writers were told by critics in their time their work was horrid only to be
seen as a genius years after their death? I don't want anyone to get the
impression that I think all these people will naturally turn out to be
eccentric, just that the likelihood is higher. ����������� Now this will be much more editorial than the above
stuff, so take it as you will. In some ways the argument could be made that
today's society is more conformist. Not that past cultures haven't been, I totally
understand you were expected to act a certain way and all that. It just seems
popularity and societal pressure to be like everyone else is at an all time
high. This brought a question to my mind; does a conformist society bring about
more or less eccentrics? I don't know. Like I said earlier I could see more
people trying to subvert their eccentricities because of societal pressure. But
with more conformity it becomes much easier to be eccentric. Just by wearing
the wrong brand or style one could be seen as out of step with the norm.
Personally I, and it seems many others, applaud and are glad we have those
people who are different. They make things interesting. And I definitely can't
complain about the achievements many eccentrics have created. I found a quote
by fashion designer Vivienne Westwood that really sums up my opinion: "To
be called eccentric in this age of conformity is something to be proud
of." It really is something to be proud of, to be able to look outside
what others say is right or normal. To be able to stand up for your individual
desires and thoughts without minding (too much) that some may look upon you
poorly. This is so clich�, but we really should celebrate that which makes
people different, I can't speak for others, but I want a world with people of
different views, different ideas, and different ways of thinking. It adds a
wider array of perspectives that we may not have thought about. But that is not
to say the non-eccentric is boring or less valuable. By far, the majority of
people are not eccentric and they are the ones who run the world. You need that
person there that will say that's a great idea, but we can't afford that or it
won't sell. Another way to think about it is maybe everyone has a few drops of
eccentricity. Most people have their peeves or that one thing that must be done
a certain way. In the end maybe that is the best way to look at eccentricity.
Not as the �normals� versus the eccentrics, but that everyone is eccentric in
their own way and in varying degrees. We are all individuals; we all think
differently and act differently from some other people. So next time you see
that guy or girl who just seems different or very weird, remember that they
have their own unique perspective to contribute to the world. And maybe, just
maybe, it's everyone else who�s looking and thinking you're eccentric one. |