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I am looking for more than a casual relationship and one that is based on sharing and real honesty, sharing hopes and fears, needs and desires. Being honest about who we are and what we want from a relationship and our lives. I don't appreciate time-wasters nor will I waste your time. I am looking to meet someone HERE in Atlanta. I do not do long distance relationships (I have done them and they don't work) and I cannot move. I am a horrible a horrible email pen-pal, am not looking for one and DON'T DO IT. So... read on... and please read ALL my ad.

I work in marketing and I have three kids 16, 13 and 11 (boy, girl, boy) for the most part they live with my ex. in New Mexico.

I don't work out as much as I should though I do Karate most weeks for fitness and SCUBA for fun when I can. I love tennis but play like a duck. I like soccer but I love my shins more. I can sew, cook well (nothing that ever had a face though) and I enjoy talking, laughing, dancing and having fun.

I like to dress up or get filthy from horse-riding down in beautiful middle Georgia, or reading anything I can lay my hands on - only for 15 minutes or so though coz I fall asleep real easily. I am loyal and love to cuddle, I'm a size 8/10 and some say I have great eyes and smile. As you can see, I mess with my hair color a lot but the photo at the top of the page is most recent - taken Halloween Weekend 2000 (No I am not in a costume!!)

I drive a real Mom-Mobile (a '98 Ford Explorer) but you should see me on a Wave-Runner! I can change a tire while being heckled by my 12 year old and his three friends or turn heads in a crowded room. I loved the eighties and the music and am not afraid to sing in the car at a busy red light. Being British I was a little reserved but nine years in the States means I know how to send back a meal or strike up a conversation with most anybody.

I love to write and do so most of the time for business and for my own soul when I can. For money, sometimes for therapy, I write news and feature stuff for syndication services. (a recent example here)

I love all kinds of music - !!! Really! As long as it is sincere and musically sound - from Blue Grass to 14th Century Chamber Music. You should see my CD collection - Bowie and Bach, Goo-Goo Dolls and Gershwin.

I was born in Northampton, England. A small-ish town 60 miles north of London. I was at college, grad-school and worked in London before coming to the US in 1991. I have traveled to most W. European countries and lived in Germany for a while before the walls came a tumbling down. I have my own business & write for my soul when I can - news and feature stuff for syndication services. I love all kinds of music - Blue Grass to Stravinsky. My CDs ?? - Bowie and Bach, Goo-Goo Dolls and Gershwin.

My guy... decisive and ambitious... not macho... but knows what he wants.  A slim frame or wiry runner type is good.. age... ??  anywhere from mid thirties to mid forties.  All my friends and my lifestyle is very much in that range...  I play softball with a bunch of 20/30's every Sunday, bowl with the same group every Monday, and play league pool every Tuesday... I am definitiely not about to settle down and my guy better be up there with me...

...is that you

If you’ve read this far you are not a guy who cruises the personals and responds to anyone in a neighboring zip-code with a pulse. I thank you for taking the time and effort to find something out about me. You should also know that I am a post-operative transsexual. That doesn't mean I am into anything other than finding a good regular guy to share my life with – don’t believe all you see on Springer! I am a normal, intelligent, heterosexual woman with a lot to offer the right person. I'll make you laugh, smile and feel good about yourself and me. I'll make a good friend if you need one and a passionate companion if it's what's meant to be. If all this is OK with you then please put the code phrase (READ AND UNDERSTOOD) in your message and we'll get along fine and avoid misunderstandings. If you don't then don't be surprised if I don't respond.