theory

Man are indecisive especially in relationships. I do not mean "man" as in "man" but "man" as the species of human beings -- the emotional beings. Let me give you an example, situations such as "to tell or not to tell" -- telling a gal/guy that you are deeply in love with her/him , "to accept or not to accept" somebody's love or maybe the problem of holding on too tightly in a failed relationship.
Friends have asked me why are they clinging on to someone who never love her or worse still, they them as "tit bits". If you are wondering what is the meaning of that, it is just a "tit bit" theory my friend has derived. Here's her "theory" (extracted from her email):

{Ok. there's this person who was all alone at home. Very unfortunately,his TV is spoilt, his PC is down, he got no radio, no board games, no Gameboy....and his fone also got problem loh. He got no handphone, no pager. In conclusion, he got nothing to do. Yah, maybe he can sleep,but he juz woke up! So he was feeling very bored, and very lonely.Since he has nothing to do, food came to his mind (and also he's hungry ) So he looked around his home for food. But he found nothing. He wanted to eat. But there's no hawker centre, no fast food restaurants, no food court, no shopping center, no supermarket near his place(plus he can't call to order home-delivery cos fone is down). Only a little shop selling titbits at his void deck. Since the most convenient thing to do is to get some titbits frm the shop, he decided to do that. Titbits is the only thing tht he can shui2 shou3 er2 de2(in chinese).But it isn't wat he wanted to eat. He wanted to eat sumthing more "filling" like rice ah, noodle ah....which is more of his appetite. But errr...he's really got nothing to do and he got no choice either .So he went to buy some ttibits. }

I believe most people will know what the moral of the story. Substitutes. Hah! I rather be a "complement"! At least, I will have a fraction of space in that particular person's heart!

Oh well... being indecisive and lonesome souls.. such things do happen and we may just know how to handle them in time to come through myraid experiences in our lifetime?

jw
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