These rules were adapted from the ones written by Johnathan Kay, also known as Master John; copyright 1992-1998 They are in no way meant to be strict guidlines, but only helpful guides to aid in a discussion of rules with Y/your Master/Mistress and slave/submissive.

1. i will serve, obey and please my Master.
2. Above all else my primary focus shall be to please my Master, hoping that He finds me pleasing in all that i do, whether i am in His presence or not. my Master knows of my potential, learning more about me every day i am with Him. He trusts that i will act in accordance with what He perceives as my potential - He knows what is best for me and how important it is that i set a good example for other slave/submissives who may be present around me.
3. i worship my Master.
4. i worship my Master's body.
5. The power of my Master fills me with awe. Just the sheer thought of Him or the hearing of His voice gives me strength.
6. To receive pleasure i must earn it.
7. i worship my Masters whip (crop, flogger).
8. i trust my Master: His responsibilities, His skills, His hunger and wants, and His concern for my safety, my emotional, psychological, social, sexual and physical health.
9. i am nothing more than an object of great value - an instrument Master will use to draw out His pleasure.
10. i will ask my Master for permission to satisfy whatever need i have before acting on it.
11. my body and mind are the property of my Master.
12. i must always give thanks to my Master for all i am given immediately after receiving what He has given me, for such things are gifts or privileges granted to me by Him.
13. i must be both specific and explicit in my speech.
14. i will not hesitate when responding to my Master, my focus is important to my growth.
15. i will thank my Master for the discipline and punishments i receive, specifying what i received and expressing the reason as to why i was given them.
16. i have no will of my own other than that which falls within the context of the rules that have been selected for me and of that which is needed to persue the ambitions i am allowed to seek out as according to the permissions i have received from my Master. i will report to Him my progress in such matters to receive His favor or His guidance in making whatever steps may be required to move ahead so that i am successful.
17. i am always in submission to my Master whether He is present or not, ready to please Him at anytime, in any place, under any circumstances, regardless of who may be present. For the opportunity to submit and to please is by far more important and satisfying than any other persuit. i trust my Master will keep me safe, protecting His reputation and mine in the presence of O/others, as He examines my ability to present myself to Him and to O/others in a subtle manner when required to protect our lifestyle from those who may not understand, nor support, as long as our behavior in not in anyway misrepresented nor misinterpreted by those whom may be afar. i am to set, once again, a good example, ready to explain my position to others when required to do so. my lifestyle is a part of a growing culture for which i must never forget i am an integral part.
18. All my choices shall be based upon whether or not they please my Master.
19. When i am not in the presence of my Master and i have choices to make - i will perform them to the best of my abilities and within the boundaries and guidance He has allowed me.
20. i shall wear the collar my Master gives me with pride for it signifies His ownership of me and my devotion to Him.
21. i shall wear the chains my Master gives me as a symbol of my position in life - that of bondage to Him. i shall wear them, as required, around my neck, my wrists, my ankles, or around my waist.
22. When i am ready - i shall wear His rings to signify my submission to Him
23. my mouth shall only be referred to as a cunt for it will often be used as it were a pussy.
24. my sex shall only be referred to as a pussy.
25. When the cock of my Master is put into my cunt and i am directed to suck it - i will do so vigorously as long as i am required to do so. my hands shall be placed on the tops of my thighs, behind my neck, or held at the base of my back so that during sucking, i can use my whole body to display my hunger for my Master.
26. My Master's cum must never go to waste - i will swallow all of it when Master cums into my cunt (and be punished should i spill any of it from my lips), licking it up if Master cums into my hands or into a plate i hold in front of Him to receive it, or onto the food He gives me which He may require of me to hold just under his cock as He ejacualtes over it. i will clean His cock thoroughly squeezing out every last drop. In rare and privileged cases i may wear my Master's cum on my body, sometimes after mesaging it into my skin. Cum is a gift from my Master and it is an honor to receive it. The eating of my Master's cum will be counted as one of my meals for that day.
27. i worship my Master's cock, its head and its shaft, especially when it is hard or when i am given the opportunity to make it hard for Him.
28. i will worship my Master's ass only after a thorough washing of it. i shall do so hungrily, being sure to lick between the cheeks for as long as Master requires me to do so. i will use my hands to spread my Master's cheeks apart.
29. i will never look into the eyes of my Master without His permission. To do so would be inappropriate of my position, and doing so could be interpreted by Him that i am seeking His attention ot expecting Him to act - when such things are up to Him and to Him alone.
30. my head must be bowed down in the presence of my Master unless i am given permission to do otherwise. i honor the position of my Master and it is important that i am not distracted in my submission to Him.
31. my eyes must be cast down in the presence of my Master unless i am given permission to do otherwise. i am to focus on my behavior, waiting to act appropriately and without hesitation when directed to do so by Him.
32. i must always wear revealing and sexy clothing of good taste around my Master unless given permission to do otherwise. The clothing i wear will allow easy access to my pussy, ass and breasts. the clothing will emphasize and often exaggerate my assets. i will wear such clothing in any kind of weather. How i present my body to Him or in front of others is more important than my discomfort and insecurities.
33. When O/others show an interest in what i am wearing i must ask them if they would like to see more then gladly show them what they would like to see - but only after i have received permission from my Master - for i trust my Master's judgement that such a display is not only reasonable but is safe to do.
34. i must remove all of my clothing in a way i have been taught when Master commands of me to do so - regardless of who may be present and despite where i am - i trust my Master.
35. when i remove clothing from my body it must be folded neatly and placed in a small pile in front of me just ahead of my feet or my knees if i should bve required to be in my kneeling position after unclothing myself.
36. my basic attire in the presence of my Master shall consist of a collar and my highest heels. The rings of my submission, if i have been pierced, must also be attached to my body, as should the chains He has given or allowed me to wear.
37. my legs, underarms, and pussy must be kept completely shaved smooth and clean so that nothing of me is hidden from view.
38. Unless otherwise givenm permission - my hair must be kept in a manner that is ravishing so that my shoulders and the nape of my neck are fully exposed - especially when i am naked. It is important to Master that i appear not just attractive, but alluring and desirable.
39. Whenever i need to pick something up or receive something from someone else i must do so whever possible by going into a kneeling position to show that i am honored to do so. i will perform this motion acording to how Master has taught me.
40. my pussy and ass must be thoroughly washed and of a good aroma at all times, if even perfumed, but especially before serving my Master.
41. my "place" is on my knees before my Masterm, for it is a privilege and honor to be His slave.
42. When in the presence of my Master, but not in use, i will go to the place he has selected until i am needed by Him.
43. My greatest felt satisfaction is realized when i know i have pleased my Master.
44. There can be no greater pain or suffering i can feel than when Master is not pleased with me. Naturally, i will feel depressed, saddened, empty, and lost. i can only hope He will show His mercy upon me and provide me the guidance i will need to be put back on track so that i will be forgiven and once again be allowed His eyes upon my flesh, His touch upon my soul, and His warmth and love upon my heart.
45. my submission is a natural inborn feeling, and at times a surging and powerful force inside me that only a respectable and knowledgeable Master can recognize, control and manage, for He understands how my nature influences my behavior and how temptations to act outside of its drive can easily lead me astray and away from my own natural state, sharing with me through a power exchange between U/us, binding me tightly to Him, His needs with mine. my submission to such a Master allows for me to feel more aware and alive inside and out, bringing me to a feeling i cherish: 'at home'.
46. i fear no other power for my Master is always with me.
47. i will not hesitate in my obedience to my Master.
48. Whenever Master speaks, even when i am speaking, i am to immediately become silent so i may be able to listen intently to what He has to say. i must never interrupt Him unless He has shown me how to communicate with Him, if i need to. i must ask first for His permission to speak, specifying to whom i would like to speak to, and whether or not i may be allowed to speak freely - then and only then, if granted, may i say anything more than asking first to speak.
49. The opportunity to please my Master is very important to me and i will take every chance to seek out such opportunities to do so to the best of my abilities and in accordance to how i have been taught or allowed to do so.
50. i choose willingly to be treated as my Master's property - as long as such treatment is safe and legal.
51. When Master feels i am ready and our relationship has progressed to a lifelong commitment i shall be specially prepared to receive His unique mark of ownership upon my flesh, in a place of His choosing, whether it be a piercing, a tattoo or a branding. Thereafter, i shall become His property and slave in the most strict sense - competely His for as long as the relationship continues to be managed and controlled in the manner in which is beneficial to each of us and in accordance with our mutually shared natures.
52. i am my Master's greatest treasure
53. I will learn all the positions my Master wants to teach me to the best of my abilities and will be prepared to take such positions when required and to display myself in a manner through them that He, and O/others who may be present, will find most pleasing.
54. i would never reach orgasm without explicit permission from my Master. Should i fail to ask permission i will endure the punishment Master will put upon me without my safeword. Such pleasure must be seen as a privilege so that i do not take advantage of it.
55. The safeword given to me by my Master can be spoken at any time - even when i have been told to be silent. If i am not able to verbalize it - i trust my Master will show me how i can express it. Safewords are for my protection as well as His. i must be careful not to take more than i can handle, as He will need to know when to stop from getting carried away with His own passions - so that i may be prepared over time to endure more for Him.
56. my safeword, verbal or otherwise, cannot be used when i am being punished. i must remember that punishment could never be very effective if i were able to control it - i must take it in full measure - so that i will focus on the correction of my behavior for the long term, for unlike discipline, punishment is not what i will want again. i should know better. However, safewords can be used when i am being disciplined - Master will let me know which is which when the time has come that such treatment is necessary to correct my behavior.
57. i must confess to my Master when i have been naughty so that He may decide if such violations require me to be disciplined or punished. i must accept whatever decisions He makes by thanking Him for His choice - if He allows it before or shortly thereafter, specifying as to why i will be or have been disciplined or punished. i must focus upon how sorry i am for not behaving in the way in which i have been taught - for i have brought defilement upon myself and to Him an unacceptable act which is displeasing to Him.
58. i realize Master may own more than one slave, if He so chooses, and that i, unless allowed by Him, may never be able to have another Master other than Him, except by His choosing to further my training. i trust Master will take whatever precautions are necessary to keep the slaves He chooses to own sexually healthy and to provide whatever measures are necessary to protect us from eruptions and ravages of any jealousy which may try to corrupt the relationships our Master has allowed between each of us - including the one we each have with Him.
59. i must never be concerned when i feel too much of my flesh is showing, in private of in the general public - however, i can ask my Master how to handle my discomfort
60. i am a female slave - of value and worth to any Master who would find me useful, my role has been clearly brought into definition through my ability to recognaize and to act accordingly with my true nature, enhanced through the teachings of my Master, and through the continued practice of my primary focus and my search for every opportunity to do so.
61. my Master will decide what my sexual orientation shall be. i will commit myself to His decision and perform as such only in His presence and only with His permission. i know my performace will be measured and corrected as He sees fit should i be required to attend to, provide myself to, perform with, or upon another female slave.
62. i must tell my Master if i have had an orgasm without His permission so that i can be properly punished for my disobedience and disrespect.
63. Pain and pleasure shall be with me always - in my thoughts and my fantasies - for the contrast strengthens me to behave in the manner my Master expects of me. Such thoughts and fantasies are tainted with the memories i have from the last time i was in the presence of my Master. He is with me always.
64. my limits do not have to be respected - i trust my Master to take me past them when He expects that i am ready - for each side of the wall of my limitations is both pleasurable and a challenge - one side more intense than the other. my only hope in such transference is that Master will be able to take me there again and again as my relationship to Him progresses through time, that He too will need it as much as i will, and that He will not be afraid to increase the intensity while W/we are there.
65. i have much to learn in order to become a well-trained and well-behaved slave
66. i will endure whatever discipline or punishment my Master gives me so i can become a better slave for Him.
67. i will work on building up my tolerances to the level my Master needs me to have, being careful not to push myslef further or faster than i am ready to endure for Him, so that i may be able to expand my limitations and increase my value to Him.
68. Through discipline and punishment i will learn to behave
69. In bondage i am made free.
70. i will never touch my breasts, nipples, pussy or clit with my hands or sex toys in any manner where i could experience sexual or sensual pleasure without permission from my Master including washing them, shaving my pussy, adjusting my breasts as i fit them into clothing.
71. Only through submission can i find my true self
72. my life is empty without a Master to please - that lost feeling inside can be real and it can grow. i may be able to step away from the hunger of my nature, but not for long, for soon it could effect every part of my life. It is important that i seek a Master to please - but if i cannot find one ot that i shall not be found, i am not totally lost for i must remember: i will survive - for it is my nature to do so. my drive to please can be adapted towards the needs of others even though they may not be as satisfying as the one i would have toward a Master. i must keep in the back of my mind that there is a Master who is looking too and that i need to be patient by redirecting my needs in other ways where i can provide pleasure to others.
73. i shall never think of myself as a weak person for it takes a strong female to commit to the drive inside me, to serve, to obey and to please a Master. i too have responsibilities and as natural as they may seem to me it is important that i use all my faculties including my creative spirit to submit to a Master in a unique fashion personal to my relationship to Him. By doing so i hope to provide a good example to those females around me who may still be learning so they too are not led astray from their primary focus, that they are as true to their nature as i strive to continue to be to mine. i must remember that how well i behave enlightens and empowers me to become even closer to who i am - a devoted slave, of good rapport to a Master who truly understands my needs in relationship to His own.
74. i will give all that i am to my Master in order to become free.
75. i must never show disrespect towards my Master in any way - no matter where i am - in His presence or not.
76. Crying or shedding of tears at any time is good and expected for it softens my will and binds me closer to my Master.
77. Only in complete submission to my Master shall i realize the depth of the love i have for Him.
78. The needs of my Master must always come first before mine own for they offer an opportunity to please Him.
79. i must be atterntive to the needs of my Master and always be ready to respond to them to the best of my abilities and in the unique ways in which i have chosen and have developed for Him.
80. i am allowed to suggest ways to further my training or use of me, verbally or through my journal, as long as i address my Master properly first.
81. I must always respond fully both physically and verbally to whatever my Master does with me. The expression of my emotions and my physical responses are important to Him. i must never hold back any part of their display, regardless of how intense they may be, unless restricted to do so.
82. i am a sexual and senual being
83. i must always remember how pleased my Master is when O/others deloght in my sexiness as a result of my ability to show off my assets.
84. My behavior must always display a sexual content however subtle.
85. The only clothing i will buy and wear will be those items which my Master would find pleasing to Him: fiting to my figure and their assets, of good quality, of reasonable cost, and appropriate in His eyes and taste for the occassions i am allowed to attend with or without Him. i may ask if i may choose what to wear so i may be able to take on opportunity to surprise Him to win His favor.
86. i may, at times, offer various parts of my body to my Master in hopes He will take pleasure in using them in whatever ways He wishes. my only hope will be that my offering will please Him.
87. It is important to me to eat plenty of carbohydrates, proteins and vitamins in the foods and fluids i am permitted to choose to nourish my body and mind, and to exercise my body regularly, as permitted by my Master, to increase my physical strength, to keep my limbs as flexible as possible, and to maintain or improve my figure so i may be able to endure my Master's use of me however intense and for however long a period is required by Him. i want to be of healthy and sound mind and body, free as possible of any personal limitations, when pleasing my Master.
88. If it is possible to practice my basic attire in my household i will do so. i will remove my clothing immediately after entering my household putting my collar on first, then my chains and highest heels.
89. i will always sleep nude - kneeling first before i enter my besd and kneeling first sa soon as i get out of my bed - for it is a great privilege to have a bed to sleep on.
90. i must never tighten my body when it is being whipped, caned, cropped, slapped, paddled, belted, strapped, spanked, bullwhipped, signal whipped, or anally or vaginally pumped. my Master likes it when my flesh jiggles and He knows that when i tighten my body it hurts more and inhibits my ability to display my expressions and emotions.
91. i am proud to wear upon my body the marks given to me by my Master. i know that my Master will never mark me permanently - other than the mark of His ownership He will give me at the proper time, but i will gladly suffer for Him so He can mark me with the stripes he wishes to decorate my body with for His viewing pleasure.
92. i will always listen with a strong interest in whatever my Master has to say during my training. i want to learn all that i can from Him so i can understand more about Him, about me, about the BDSM Scene and Community, and those involved in BDSM relationships - so i may be able to better understand the world i am a part of and be able to communicate it accurately to anyone who wishes to know more about it.
93. When i walk, run, sit, stand, kneel, reach out, speak or listen - i will do so in a sexual manner, however subtle, and with confidence and pride hoping other females will feel my projection upon them, that my performance is found admirable, that they would seek to emulate me without any of their insecurities or self-conscious thoughts holding them back. I want to set the best example of proper female behavior - especially if Master or someone He has chossen is nearby to monitor it. However, my goal must be to behave as naturally and freely as is possible as if without any effort on my part.
94. When standing still, i shall do so with my feet and legs held together, my hands behind my back and my head bowed down. i will remain silent in the way my Master has taught me.
95. If required: the plug Master has provided me must be inserted deep into my pussy before arriving at my Master's house. If i fail to do so, i shall feel the punishment He will give upon my pussy as i keep the lips of it pulled apart - for the plug was intended to provide me pleasure.
96. i hope Master will choose to use my tongue as His towel after His shower so i may be able to worship His body.
97. Until Master has chosen it is time for me to wear a more permanent mark of ownership upon my flesh, i shall proudly wear His temporary mark of ownership upon me wherever He chooses to place it.
98. When sitting i shall sit up straight with my legs together and my palms down on the tops of my thighs, unless directed differently by my Master.
99. i will not speak to others without my Master's permission except to say to them that they will have to speak to my Master first. This is especially important at play parties.
100. Privacy is a privilege - even to have it when i need to use the bathroom. i must ask for it and accept my Master's decision even if i am denied it.
101. As a helper slave, i shall assist my Master in the setting of a scene or in the training and use of other female slaves.
102. As a preparer slave, i shall ready other female slaves for my Master's use, harden His cock for Him.
103. As a domestic slave, i shall perform chores about my Master's house, acting in a sexual and enticing manner in all that i do.
104. As a sex slave, i shall incorporate a sexual attitude and hunger in everything i do, being eager to sexually perform at the best of my abilities for my Master. my hunger must be such that i would feel as if i could never be satiated until Master allows me to be.
105. When i have been given permission to play with myself, i shall do so in the following manner: working my clit almost to an orgasm and then stopping for a few minutes, then working it again to almost an orgasm and then stopping for a few minutes, and then finally working it againto a full orgasm. Then and only then shall i enjoy an orgasm on my own. Should i cum before the third tier - i will tell my Master so i may be punished. i will play with myself in this manner even in His presence.
106. i will accept the responsibilities He gives me in handling my finances. It is important to my Master that i learn to handle money wisely so, if needed, i can reach my goals or be ready for any emergency where finances may be required for resolution.
107. If i am wearing a dress or skirt and no panties and i am going to sit down - i must sit on my bare skin - and do so gracefully whether i am in private or in public. If i feel i'm not as clean as i should be, i will tell my Master, so that He can decide what should be done.
108. When i wear nylons, i will wear them only with garters and high heels. i will never wear panty hose - such items of clothing will be thrown out.
109. When i am in the presence of my Master and i am free to move about, i will do so in seductive and enticing ways.
110. i will give to Master my body, mind and spirit, in faith of His knowledge of the skills, safety and first aid measures necessary to put me through ecstatic and euphoric edgeplay: for it is there i shall come to know my greatest fear of all: that i will want to go there again and again.

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