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There is no time limit on grief. That is a true ?statement. It is hard losing a love one. Its even harder. Having to deal with outside conflict. Sometimes you have people, that mean well. But they say the wrong things. Your pain is still fresh. The tears are still flowing. Your heart is hurting. Your mind is spining. Your love one is gone. It matters not if it was a week ago. Or if it happened years ago. What matters is that someone you love has gone. Someone you won't see around. Someone you won't be able to touch, or speak to. You will have people around you. Thinking that its been long enough, for you to grieve. People saying they are in a better place. It's true, your love will have no more suffering or pain. Are you in a better place? What I mean is this. When someone you love is gone. Their spirit lives on, in our hearts. We still have memories of them. Our love for them doesn't end. We don't forget them. To get yourself in a better place. You need to alknowledge your pain. You need to cry your tears. Find someone that you can talk to. Alot of times, when someone goes home. We don't know what to say. Sometimes, just listening and being a friend is enough. But for those who pain is too great to bear. Get on your phone and call on the Lord. Its nothing wrong with grieving a love one. It is wrong to stop living your life. Yes it will take time. Everyday, look upon yourself. And say to yourself I'm alive. And to quote B.J. Real folks do cry |
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