That is, your baby will teach you how to best parent him or her, if only you listen.� The best way to raise your baby may not be the same as the best way to raise mine.� Yet, all too often we hear mothers talking about what books they've found helpful, or what outside resources they are using to help them learn how to raise their children. (??)�� As women, we have been brought up to be unsure of ourselves, and now we scurry about, somehow looking for the key that will unlock that magical information already found in our heart and our babies cries.