Negombo News – September/October ’04

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Welcome Home ~ party time J

We had a wonderful celebration on Saturday October 9th.  Sis Pathma, the wife of bro Rajah in Nuwara Eliya and mother of Dhileep (16), Suresh the budding artist (14) and dear little Praveen (5) returned home from Kuwait.  Pathma took a two-year contract as a housemaid there about three and a half years ago and returned to SL on 1st April 2003.  However neither she nor Rajah had employment so they decided Pathma would return for a further two years – she left again for Kuwait on 1st October 2003.  The decision to go (on both occasions) must have been so, so tough. 

Rajah has struggled with this second period of separation as, we suspect, have the boys.  The boys speak little/no English so it is very difficult for us to communicate with them on any level more advanced that “would you like a cup of tea?”.  Pathma has found that this second contract just too tough and her employer agreed to release her from her contract so she could return home.  Sounds simple enough but not so.  The last six or eight months has been an extremely traumatic time for Pathma and her family.  We’ve been caught up in some of the drama and have had a pretty harrowing time as well.  It is lovely to have her safely back home.   

Rajah and the boys arrived from N’Eliya on the Friday morning and we spent part of Friday decorating the lounge-room with streamers and balloons and a banner Suresh had made which read “welcome to mother”.  Suresh did all the up and down the ladder work while Praveen helped Dorothy staple the streamers together to make them long enough to reach from banister to light fittings etc.  Not such an easy task when the operation of the stapler is controlled by an excited Tamil speaking 5 year old boy and “co-ordinated” by a (not telling how old) English speaking woman whose fingers were in danger of being stapled to the streamers.  Praveen has a wonderful way of showing his excitement.  He literally jumps up and down on the spot.  He seemed to spend half his time in mid air while the decorations were being put up.

So the family had some time together on Saturday and we had a “special dinner” that evening (rice and curry …. and ice-cream).  The boys LOVE ice cream and even Pathma’s eyes light up at the mention of the word – it is quite comical.  On Sunday a number of bre’n and sisters made a special effort to all come together for the meeting and everyone stayed and enjoyed lunch together afterwards (rice and curry … and ice cream!) J.  Monday evening saw the reunited family hop on the train and head home to N’Eliya.

The next challenge will be to try to help either/both Rajah and Pathma to find employment … and that is a big challenge.  The unemployment rate here is about 25% so jobs are a bit like hens’ teeth. There are no unemployment benefits so life without a job is hard.

But we’ve put a CV together for Pathma and will send it to a number of the larger hotels in N”Eliya in the hope that someone will give her a job as a housemaid or similar.  This is a lovely little family that certainly needs your prayers.

On a couple of occasions since we’ve been here we discovered that some of the people we have come to know actually know one another.  We had another surprise when Pathma returned from Kuwait. There is a family who live about 4km from us whose two young children come to Sunday School.  On the Sunday Pathma was here, Ajith, the father of the two SS children came to drop them off and he and Pathma recognised one another.  Ajith and his family used to live in N’Eliya and Ajith came to a study that was held in N’Eliya about six years ago.  He met Pathma then and also saw her around the town from time to time!  Even though Ajith and Rajah have seen one another here in Negombo they haven’t recognised one another.

Busy at the desk

We’ve recently made a literature offer for “Israel and the Purpose of God” and had an advertisement in one of the English language Sunday papers again for “After Death – What?”.  So again there are lots of letters and booklets being sent to either existing contacts who have responded to the literature offer or to new contacts who have written in response to the newspaper advert.  There are about 70 or so new contacts from this last advertisement and we anticipate that the responses will continue for some time yet.  We even got another response to the May advertisement this week!

To date we haven’t advertised in any of the Sinhala papers as we haven’t had a range of Sinhala booklets available.  But now that there are 12 Sinhala booklets on the shelves and a further eight or so either with the printer or nearly ready for printing we believe that it would now be appropriate to try a Sinhala language advert for a Sinhala language publication in a Sinhala newspaper.  Once this happens it will be the first time that a direct approach to the 17+ million Sinhala speaking Sri Lankans will have occurred.  It is probably something which we won’t be here to see but Rob and Rachelle will organise and, with Tissa’s help will manage the responses.

Bible Truth Study Day – September

September’s BTSD was we felt, one of the best to date.  The attendance varies a bit from month to month both in terms of numbers and faces.  In September we had a great roll-up and all of the keenest contacts who come regularly all made it  – so the numbers were good, the best of the best were there, the participation was good and the atmosphere great. J

The gentleman who came from Kandy for the first time in August came again and we had three new faces – Mohinlal and Priscilla (a couple in their late 40s/early 50s) and Sarah their six year old daughter.  Zenomy was delighted to have a playmate and included “God bless Sarah” as one of the things to be included in the Sunday School prayer the following week.

The program covered:

o       The First Century Church – what did it believe and practise?  (The first of two or three programs in which we look at 1st Century Christianity and how we can know what the Church should teach.);

o       Powerful Reasons for Believing – “The Future of the World in a Dream!”

o       Suffering (a discussion group again using notes from “The Way of Life”);

o       The Apostles’ Fellowship - What was it?  What did it mean to the 1st century believers?

Out and about

We’ve spent a bit more time on the road this month visiting a number of contacts and brethren and sisters.  We’ve had a couple of multiple visits to some of our best contacts with some great discussions.  We met another lady for the first time and came away feeling quite excited about her.  She told us that before our arrival she had prayed to God asking Him to ensure that we believed in the trinity; so perhaps she wasn’t as excited about us as we were about her!  But she is a lady who reads, listens and thinks and seems keen to know more and more about Bible teachings.  We’ve had one phone call from her since our visit so hopefully she’s come to grips with her disappointment that we believe “the Lord, He is One”.

We had a quick trip to N’Eliya to see Rajah and the boys (just prior to Pathma’s return).  On the way back to the coast we took a different route home to the one we normally take as we wanted to get to Mt Lavinia – about 15kms south of Colombo rather than back to Negombo which is 40 km north of Colombo.  So we travelled a different route (via Hatton) and saw some stunning scenery.  The scenery on our usual route is quite special but we’re so used to it we probably don’t appreciate it as much as we should.  The route through Hatton took us past more beautiful mountains and waterfalls. It took us past Adam’s Peak and Land’s End which are famous mountains/mountain areas here in SL.  We didn’t have time to go exploring but we certainly enjoyed what we did manage to see from the car. We also saw even more tea ladies – but this time we saw them sorting their pickings, having them weighed etc.

Other Stuff

“And the rain came tumbling down.  The rain came down and the floods came up, the rain came down and the floods came up …”

During our first year here we saw a lot of rain. But during this second year we’ve had almost no rain – a short period with some heavy rain in April but not much other than that.  The early (April/May) monsoon failed and the country has been pretty dry.  However when it does rain here it

really knows how to do it well. And on about 21st September everything changed and the change was that abrupt.  No rain for months and months and then one day the rains started and it subsequently rained pretty well everyday for the next three weeks.  Much of the rain was quite heavy – the sort of rain that if you take just one step out into it you are immediately drenched to the skin.  The frogs love it J.   They were back to their old tricks of croaking for hours on end.  Not just an hour or two but up to eight/ten hours at a time; and they make quite a din!  It literally sounds like an idling chain saw (for those who haven’t seen our earlier descriptions last year or who don’t remember what we said then!).

After a week of heavy rain, on and off, followed by hours of heavy rain on the one day the roads soon flooded and we were stuck at home.  It put an end to some planned visits – flooded roads mean hidden potholes especially once you leave the main roads.  The potholes can be pretty challenging even when you know they are there.  When they are hidden with a layer of water they are quite treacherous.  We often have to slow right down just to navigate our way around/through potholes and the car bottoms out frequently.  To try to move around at any reasonable speed when you can’t see the road surface would be lunacy on many of the roads around here.

The bags are packed!

Well, not quite but we’ve started!  Having been here for two years we aren’t quite sure how much stuff we’ve accumulated!  The airline gave us each an extra 10kg luggage allowance on both trips from Oz to SL so we are hoping that they’ll honour that on the way home, but we’re not sure as they didn’t honour it in September last year when we went home for eight weeks.  There are of course lots and lots of things we brought with us that won’t be going home.  Lots of books for the library here, lots of treats (e.g. homemade jam) which we’ve eaten J, some very tired and worn out clothes and a few other bits and pieces that are now household items here.  But how much extra have we purchased?  Don’t think it’ll amount to much but we’ve made an early start just to avoid a nasty surprise the week we are due to leave.  We also need to move bedrooms in anticipation of the arrival of the Oosthuizens from NZ so that the four children and mum and dad can all sleep in the 3 bedrooms upstairs.  That means we’ve had to clear out our bedroom cupboard and the second bedroom which we’ve used as the junk room/overflow room and now have to restrict ourselves to about ¼ of the space we’ve had the exclusive use of for the past two yearsL.  All the Sunday School materials have had to be moved out of the third upstairs bedroom and relocated and the rooms given a good old clean out.

We are sort of prepared for the Oosthuzien’s arrival.  Their bedrooms are nearly cleaned out, we’ve bought extra cutlery and pillows, the sheets have been washed so they’re nice and fresh and the kids’ favourite spreads are in the kitchen cupboards.

A day off

On Tuesday 12th October we headed off late afternoon and drove about three hours north east to a place called Dambulla where we stayed overnight.  The next morning had us up bright and early and after a breakfast of fruit, hoppers, dahl curry and pol-sambal we were off to see the tourist attractions Sigiriya.  Hoppers are pancake like goodies (very light) made out of rice flour based batter and cooked to form a bowl shape.  Dahl – as many will know is a dish made out of chic peas and cooked with tomato, garlic, onions, curry leaves and lots of spicy things.  Pol-sambol is a dish of freshly scraped coconut to which lots of spices, especially chilli, have been added.  Quite yummy really J.

We headed off at about 9.00 am to climb Sigiriya.  Sigiriya is an amazing oblong rock about 200-250m high and which sticks straight up out of the ground.  It is set in the middle of a plain!  At the base of the rock are large gardens the design of which appears to be Persian influenced.  There is a large moat and a number of smaller nooks with gardens at the beginning of the ascent.  But it soon becomes a climb up a series of very rusted 20th century staircases – many of the steps have rusted right through – up the side of sheer walls.  Once you get to the top it is really flat and it is here that King some-one-or-other had his wet-season palace and fortress back in the 5th century AD.  All that is left of it at the top of the rock are a number of broken down walls, a big pool and the remnants of gardens and massive rock carved garden seats.  On the way up there are remnants of other garden areas, seats, walls and fountains … and about a dozen or so frescos.  These are paintings of voluptuous ladies.  It must have been wash day the day they sat for their portraits as none of them have their tops on!  They are the only paintings in SL that are part of the antiquities and are not objects of worship.  Just nearby the paintings (which are painted directly onto the walls of the rock-face in an area where there is a bit of a recess in the rock-face so the paintings are protected a little from the wind and rain etc) is a 3m high wall.  It is call the “mirror wall” and it was originally covered with some sort of reflective polish/paint and used as a “graffiti wall” where guests could write about their impression of the paintings.  The writing was actually scratched into the rock surface.  Some of this 5th century graffiti is still visible!   If you see the paintings in the late afternoon they apparently glow with the light of the sun.

Another lovely sight we saw while we were on top of the rock was a pair of very big herons or storks riding the thermals!  Of course birds of prey doing so are a fairly common sight but neither of us have ever seen any other sort of bird doing so, particularly a waterbird.

We poked around Sigiriya for about four hours before heading back home.  Finding this major tourist attraction was quite an experience.  We travelled a couple of kms straight down the sealed road from where we were staying until we came upon a sign “Sigiriya” pointing to the left.  We followed this unmade, non-maintained, dirt track about 3kms and found the ticket office – bought our tickets and asked where we had to go next … we couldn’t see any rock.  We were pointed back in the direction we had just come from.  So we drove the 3kms back down the dirt track, turned left onto the bitumen road and 3 kms later found the entrance to Sigiriya.  There were guards at the entrance gate who directed us left again along a well maintained gravel road which led around the base of the Sigiriya rock following the route of the moat.  After 500 m we found another guard in a little office and were told we had to present our tickets.  The tickets were torn in half and a scrap of butcher’s paper was given to us with a rubber stamp on it.  We were then told to return to the “entrance” where our tickets were again checked and the bit of butcher’s paper was taken off us.  The latter turned out to be our “car park ticket”!!  Then we directed through the entrance to the car park.  Easy when you know how!  Why couldn’t they just have a ticket office at the entrance?  We don’t know … any ideas?

This country is not geared for tourists.  Dambulla, the town we stayed in the night before we climbed Sigiriya is a bit of a hub. There are two major tourist attractions close-by and it is the junction of a number of major highways that lead to other regional cities and touristy places but not one sign pointing you in the right direction.  You have to stumble across what you’re looking for.  And this is quite common across the Island.

Trinco again

This coming week we are planning to head to Trincomalee again.  We were there about a month ago and met a chap who is involved with a Dutch church organisation that is assisting with the re-establishment of displaced persons and re-establishment of villages and their communities.  All of these needs have arisen as a result of the civil war.  We are hoping to spend a day out and about with him seeing first hand some of the work he is involved in.  After that we’ll head for the beach for a short break before our dash home to meet the Oosthuizens on 23rd October and our last month before we head HOME for Oz.  This last month looks like it’s going to be pretty hectic.  Lots to do; lots of people to see and lots of goodbyes to be said L and there a couple of things on our “wish list” that we’d like to do including a trip to Jaffna, right up in the north.  There are a couple of contacts we hope to visit on the way and when we get there and it is an area we haven’t been into yet.  But from reports we hear it’s the area MOST ravaged by war so we’re not sure what we’re going to see.

We hope to get one further edition of NN on-line before we head home but no promises.

Bye till next time,

Love from Ken & Dorothy

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