Negombo News – August/September ’04

Count down!

We’ve just moved the calendar onto September and have become acutely aware that “countdown” has begun!  It’s still 12 weeks until we are back home but next month the Oosthuizen’s arrive!  They’re not due until late October but none-the-less --- that’s still only next month! 

The Mission Matters

Bible Truth Study Day – August

The 29th August was circled on the calendar for two reasons.  It was the date for BTSD and it was our wedding anniversary.  So how did we celebrate?  With about 14 people here for lunch (rice and curry).  The crowds left at about 4.30pm and the celebrations continued with dinner being toast and peanut butter, jam or vegemite; choose your own spread and make your own toast! 

The program was again successful even though the numbers were below average.  BTSD fell on a Sunday and as a result and as expected a number of people were not able to come.  But there was a “new face”; Li Hua, a gentleman of Chinese descent who lives in Kandy.  Li Hua has only been on the books for about six months but he has written to us three for four times with a number of unusual questions (e.g. regarding the clothing of the High Priest and another about the “abomination that makes desolate”).  We were in Kandy about four weeks ago and met him and his family and invited them to attend the program here in Negombo.  We were really pleased when Li Hua advised he was coming.  It is almost a three-hour trip by bus so his attendance shows a fair degree of interest.  We’ve since had a letter from him expressing his appreciation, particularly for the Bible focussed program – something which he says he has not found elsewhere.  Li Hua told us when he was leaving for the return trip to Kandy that next month he will bring his family.  The proof of the pudding will be in the eating but with that “promise” and his subsequent letter we are hopeful that we will see quite a bit more of him in the next couple of months.

The August program followed the same format and considered:

Ø      The patience of Job - why does God allow suffering.

Ø      How we got our Bible.

Ø      What is God like?  (Discussion session, follow-up to 31st July program – the character of God).

Ø      Israel’s exodus from Egypt – these things are examples for us.  Considering the parallels between the Israelites’ redemption as they crossed the Red Sea and baptism.

Hither and thither

We’ve not been out and about as much in the last four or five weeks (July/August) as we are normally.  A number of people who we have planned to see have for a variety of reasons not been free and we’ve been tied to home quite a bit.  We did go to Kandy and saw three people there and then visited three other families on the way back to Negombo and several weeks before that we had a couple of days on the south side of Colombo.  We’re planning another couple of visits to the south side over the next few days (3rd – 5th September).

Translation

Tissa continues to visit us weekly (or twice a week) and the translation program continues to make good progress.  There’s been a couple more letters written in Sinhala to which Tissa has replied.

Office work

We’ve been up to our ears in correspondence.  With an ever-increasing number of people requesting booklets we have found that the office aspect of the work has increased significantly.  Two years ago we used to receive about 40/45 requests for literature in response to the literature offers sent out.  We now receive about double that number so of course have twice as many letters to send out etc and records to update.  It takes a lot of time.

Amen

For some time now I (Dorothy) have been encouraging Zenomy, the eight year-old Sunday School student (soon to turn nine) to say the Sunday School prayer before our class commences.  Up until recently she’s always declined.  But now there are two other children in the class and nine year-old Shaloma recently said the prayer.  We always have a chat before hand about the things we can talk to God about in the prayer.  Several weeks ago Zenomy was the only child present so she plucked up the courage and surprised me by saying “I’ll say the prayer today”.  Zenomy had two things she wanted to tell God and I suggested another two.  Both of us were there with our heads bowed and Zenomy managed items one, two and three before she had a mental blank.  I stage whispered the last one which she then repeated out loud and swiftly concluded with “Amen” followed by a big sigh complete with puffed out cheeks and raised eyebrows.  I’m sure God appreciated the effort J.

Other Stuff

Negombo wildlife

In the last edition of NN we reported a snake in the yard – the first we’d seen in the yard in two years.  Can you believe it, there was a second one about a week later!  None since thankfully J.  It may be that with the yard cleared we are able to see what was previously out of sight and out of mind.

Frustration plus

We have had an amazing run on dealing with what seem to incompetent dudes!  Over the last 6-8 weeks we have wasted days and days chasing people to complete what should have been straight forward tasks.  It is so time wasting and so exasparating.

In summary:

Ø      the landlady had taken away the broken down washing machine and had a temporary replacement installed while the old one was being fixed.  This took six weeks to achieve and more phone calls than we care to think about and we spent numerous days waiting at home for promised visits that just didn’t happen.  Aaugh.  Installing the second temporary replacement washing machine (they never even got the first temporary replacement to work) involved knocking a hole in the solid brick wall between the kitchen and the garage so they could install a pipe to take the water away.  AND an explanation of which button and dial was which because……it’s ALL in Japanese!  Unfortunately the hole and therefore the protruding pipe are too close to the sliding door which provides access between the kitchen and the garage so now we can’t open the door all the way!  The pipe they installed was too narrow and had a serious kink in the middle so after they men had left and the first load of washing was put on the machine wouldn’t drain.  Another phone call, the men returned and new pipe was purchased and installed.  It was then found that it was too large to fit under the garage door so they bashed a channel into the concrete garage floor to accommodate the pipe.  All this for a temporary fix and after six weeks of hand washing every thing in a bucket propped on the toilet seat.  The original machine will be repaired and returned once replacement parts are sent from Italy; there is no agent in SL for this brand of appliance.  The landlord is now in Italy so hopefully he’ll get the necessary bits and pieces soon.

Ø      the travel agent owed us a refund on tickets which we’d purchased but didn’t use when we went to India in May.  The refund process was supposed to take about six weeks.  We got action after about 10 weeks and a multiple number of visits to their office.  The one that achieved a result was when the riot act was read – the refund became available the next day!

Ø      our kettle, a good one purchased at Abans – the retailer with the most reputable name in SL – packed it in after we’d had it for about a month.  Two months later with numerous visits to two show rooms including a trip to Colombo, numerous phone calls, the ultimate in “run-around” treatment and again the riot act being read the kettle was repaired and returned to us.

Ø      we purchased a water filter (paid for by the Bible Mission).  It both purifies the water and takes all the yucky tastes away.  It’s great.  No more pots of boiling water on the stove top every second night.  It was installed again after numerous phone calls and a number of days staying at home waiting for the promised service man to arrive.

Don’t know why all these time-wasting frustrations have occurred simultaneously but they certainly didn’t do much for our state of mind.  It seemed that in order to get any kind of action we had to get cross – as long as we were prepared to wait patiently everyone we were dealing with just kept putting each of the various jobs on the back-burner.  These constant broken promises of “we will come tomorrow, the day after etc” have been one of the factors that has really impacted on our mobility.

Waiting patiently

We’re not the only ones having to wait patiently.  The whole country seems to run on the premise that no-one has to consider anyone else’s timetable.

There are two or three roads which give access to Kandy.  It normally takes us about ¾ hour to get from the centre of Kandy to the outskirts – a trip of about 5km!  This is largely due to two factors:

Ø      there is inadequate traffic management where the main access roads meet up with the roads that take traffic to and from other regional centres/villages and

Ø      non of the two or three roads which give access to Kandy are wide enough or in good enough condition to cope with the large volume of traffic. 

During our recent visit to Kandy we saw a bus pulled over to the side of one of these main roads at a garage.  Fortunately for us we were heading in the other direction.  The bus was not actually off the road but with its left wheels were just off the bitumen so ¾ of the body of the bus was still on the road (there is insufficient room to pull right off the road).  The bus was full of passengers and the driver was busy with an air hose checking the tyres.  Cars were banked back for a good 2kms behind the bus as there was insufficient room to pull out and pass.  So not only were the bus load of passengers waiting for the driver to check the tryes but also a 2km stretch of cars!  It would be a bit like a bus blocking the main road into Ballarat while the tyres were checked.  Thankfully it was just a check and the bus hadn’t broken down.  That would cause a seemingly endless traffic jam.

Checking the bus tyres while the bus is full of passengers would be a normal practice here.  At home you would never pull into a petrol station while on the bus but they do here.  It is quite common to see a bus packed with passengers stopped beside a petrol pump; the bus is refueled en-route rather than at the “depot”. 

Ozzies drop in J

We thoroughly enjoyed a visit from Rob and Leah Crawford and their two children, Josh (11) and Ellie (9) from Bowral (NSW).  They had come to SL primarily to visit family (Ken, Rita and Michael Harding) but also managed to visit a couple of contacts and brethren and sisters and spent some time here with us in Negombo.  The Crawfords spent about five nights in total with us.  It was great to have them here – and we saw a bit more of Ken, Rita and Michael too.  On the Sunday that they were here we had about 12 people at the meeting (including kids) and most stayed on for lunch.

Raja and Praveen also came down from Nuwara Eliya during the Crawford’s visit so we had a full house which was fun.  There’s nothing like a bit of company to boost the morale. 

Tourists

We’re hoping to see a few spots that we haven’t visited before we head back home.  Sigiriya is a huge squarish rock formation which just rises out of the ground and was the site of one of the ancient king’s palaces or similar.  Don’t really know much of its history at the moment but a couple of people have told us it’s well worth seeing.  It’s one of SL’s major tourist attractions.  It’s only about ½ day’s drive from here (we think) heading north-east.

The other spot we’ve had on our wish list for some time is a place called Trincomalee (Trinco).  We had to revise the earlier draft of this September NN as it too was on our wish list but now we’ve been there J.  We arrived there about lunch-time on Wednesday 8th and returned to Negombo on Saturday 11th.   Trinco has had an interesting and chequered history.  Control of the area since the 1600’s has moved to and fro between the Dutch, Portuguese, French and the British.  It is now of course independent, as is the rest of SL.  The British used the area as a naval base (harbour) during WWII.  Jim can you please tell Fred Walker of our visit; we saw him when had our break at home last year and he told us a little bit about his time there during the war.  The Royal Navy (or RAF?) used the lovely calm waters of the bays to land the flying boats.  If our memory is correct we think Fred used to fly these machines between Perth and Trinco.

Emphasising our mortality

We visited the Commonwealth War cemetery in Trinco which is on the way to where we were staying.  There were probably about 200 graves of servicemen and women in the cemetery which is beautifully maintained.  We found just one grave of an Australian RAAF serviceman.  But some were quite sad.  “An unknown Burmese soldier” etc.  But what emphasized our own mortality were the descriptions of families which said “Always remembered, Mum, Dad and….” siblings.  And we contemplated that “Mum” and “Dad” would now be dead and his or her siblings would themselves now be approaching the time when they may only rarely think of their dear one resting so far away in a foreign land.  “All flesh is grass” God’s word tells us.  But the “Word of the LORD abides for ever”.  The one who makes that Word part of himself or herself ensures their ultimate immortality when they will no longer be a memory….or simply forgotten, because no-one knew them.  Isn’t the possibility of being remembered by God a wonderful assurance?

Trinco’s sights

Trinco and the nearby beach areas are quite beautiful.  Trinco itself is quite a good size and a busy town.  It is set on a series of huge bays which, although subject to quite a bit of activity, still have lovely sparkly blue water and relatively clean beaches.  We stayed about 15kms north where again the beach and water was really great.  It’s the first time we’ve taken an ocean swim since we’ve been here.  We also enjoyed a couple of walks along the beach and swimming in the pool.  Unfortunately our “time out” was a bit disjointed as we had ½ day to ourselves the day we arrived.  The next day (Thursday) we had to head back into Trinco as some Mission business cropped up which needed immediate attention and to access email and the bank we had to spend the morning on the road.  But we had Friday to ourselves and did not do too much at all J.

Monkeying around…

We commented that we had seen a large group of langur monkeys while at Yala in July.  These are grey monkeys with a very black face and an extraordinarily long tail.  We also commented that they seemed quite shy of people and whenever we’ve seen these monkeys they have always quickly run off.  Well, we’ve since found out that they are not all shy.  There was a really big “menagerie” (what do you call a group of 40 or 50 monkeys?) of them living in the vicinity of our accommodation.  They spent ages and ages in the trees around the rooms and made themselves quite at home despite the best efforts of the staff to frighten them away.  The “dining room” was out in the open and one of the staff members told us that if they don’t frighten the monkeys away they come and overturn the tables and create absolute havoc.  So they are not quite as retiring as we first thought.  They were really boisterous playing with one another and jumping from rooves to trees and from tree to tree.  They jump on the branches with such force that the branches become their trampolines and they appear to use the leverage they achieve to enhance their mobility.

On the Saturday we were back in Trinco visiting some contacts before the five-hour trip back to Negombo.  One of the contacts we met (a young guy about 18 years old) lives at home with his mother, his married sister and bro-in-law (Gerard) and their two children.  We had a good chat with him and the whole family.  Gerard has an interesting occupation.  He works for a Dutch organisation involved in social rehabilitation activities that are necessary as a result of the impact of the civil war.  He has invited us to join him and visit some of the newly re-established villages for which he is responsible.  Gerard assures us we would be quite safe.  If we have time we’ll probably take up this invitation – it would be quite an interesting exercise and give us a glimpse into the life communities that have been decimated by war.

There is an old Fort at Trinco, built in the 1600’s (Fort Frederick) and now occupied by the army/navy.  Its roads are open to the public but its buildings are out of bounds.  I (Dorothy) was wanting to go the toilet and we asked some soldiers who were sitting outside their barracks if there was a public toilet.  No there wasn’t but after a bit of chatting amongst themselves they suggested I could use the one inside their barracks but warned me it was “not comfortable”.  I was pleased to find a western toilet; quite clean, running water, etc.  The only uncomfortable thing was that it was set in the middle of a very large bathroom which had double doors opening into the men’s sleeping quarters and another set of double doors looking out into the courtyard where the men’s washing was strung up.  Neither set of doors would close properly.  I could push them too reducing the opening a bit but I still had a good view of the yard and sleeping quarters and of course anyone out there would have had a good view of me!  However the call of nature overrode the risk factor and fortunately there was no passing traffic while I was there J.

A bit of history….and an evidence of Providence (??)

One of the buildings inside the Fort is a large residence where Colonel Wellesly (later to become the Duke of Wellington), stayed a long time ago (1799) when recovering from a wound received in southern India (near Bangalore) when fighting with a Moslem ruler called Tipu Sultan.  Turns out that the Duke was lucky (or was it Providence?) to have been wounded and therefore grounded while he recovered as the boat he was supposed to sail home in sunk on its way back to England with the loss of all lives.  However it was unlucky for Napoleon as it was this same Duke who later walloped him at the Battle of Waterloo!  We spotted the building where he stayed in the distance but were not allowed to approach it – it currently serves as the Officers’ Mess.  But it is really interesting to see something like that – it does make history come alive.  I (Dorothy) didn’t enjoy history at school – and still don’t – it usually seems to me to be so irrelevant to the here and now but my outlook changes quite a bit when there is something right before my eyes.  We’ve also both seen Tipu Sultan’s summer palace near Mysore in India – another added point of interest for us J.  By the way – does anyone know the title of a Sultan’s wife?  Anyone who said Sultana is right!

There were heaps and heaps of beautiful spotted deer wandering around inside the Fort.  So much for being pleased at seeing them at Yala back in July.  These ones were much closer to us and we saw one family patting one of the deer.

War torn

Up until recently we have been hesitant to head to Trinco as we’d been led to believe that we may not be safe due to the tensions between the govt and the Tamil Tigers.  We also had the impression that the road conditions were deplorable making the trip even worse than most travel on SL roads.  But the Crawfords and Hardings went there three of four weeks ago and came back with quite a different story. 

We were pleasantly surprised.  The road conditions by SL standards were quite good for the majority of the trip.  The traffic was a lot lighter than normal (though the drivers just as bad) and although we passed through numerous police and army roadblocks we were only stopped once and then immediately waved on once the cop had a cursory glance at us and in the back seat.  But there were lots and lots of roadblocks and lots of lots of armed soldiers patrolling the countryside. 

The impact of the war is tragic right across the country but more pronounced in the east than anything else we’ve seen to date.  The standard of housing is very poor.  Many of the houses are made by pasting mud between horizontal timbers and have thatched rooves.  Many are made with thatched walls and rooves.  Then there is also the old corrugated iron version.  There are a lot of buildings which when constructed were more solid than these thatched rooved homes but they are partially demolished, presumably as a result of the war and the cost of repairing must be beyond the capacity of the owners.  Generally the standard of living was much, much lower than those living on the west coast enjoy.  But, for those who live in these impoverished conditions they at least generally have a cleaner environment to live in than the poverty stricken city dwellers.  And as usual you see some incongruous sights.  We spotted one mud/timber house that had a huge piece of black plastic draped over the thatched roof (to help with the weather proofing) and all sorts of old junk on top to hold the plastic down.  Then atop all of this there was solar panel sticking up into the sky providing the household electricity.

Even the very best of the houses were quite basic.

The schools we saw were either brick walls with openings for windows and thatched rooves OR were made entirely out of timber and thatching.  Ken says his Dad’s chook house provided better accommodation!  No need to look for the science wing, the computer wing or sports store – there were none.

It’s a small, small world

On our way back from Trinco (about 100kms homeward bound) we stopped for a drink and parked beside a car that had a Christian sticker on the rear window.  Ken commented on it to the owner and gave him one of the booklets we had with us.  We got chatting and it turns out that this gentleman is a friend of Gerard, the chap in Trinco who has invited us to tour some of the newly re-established villages.

So on an island the size of Tassie with a population of approximately 20 million we met two people on the same day, in quite independent circumstances, in separate locations, neither of whom we’ve even heard of before … who are buddies!

The nature of the work…and one of its challenges

Dorothy comments above about our three day break being punctuated by Mission business.  We’ve commented before about the fact that our role is not simply preaching and being spiritual mentors and advisers to those with whom we come in contact.  It is also often about financial counselling, career advice, marriage guidance etc.  We feel incredibly inadequately equipped at times.  The nature of it is that it is a 24/7 experience; there simply is no time off.  We take our mobile with us because we never know when someone will ring with an emergency problem or wanting to see us etc and we don’t want to miss any opportunity.  We’ve been up at 1.45 am receiving calls from overseas.  We’ve had text messages peppering us at 2 am.  So it is not like being at home and being able to walk away from such problems or having many, many others with whom a problem can be shared.  We have come to appreciate in very real terms the Apostle Paul’s stints of 18 months and 2 years in places like Corinth, Ephesus and Rome.  AND perhaps even more so, his words where after a long list of bruising and painful experiences like shipwreck, a beating, or imprisonment, he says simply “and besides all this, the daily care of all the churches”.  It must have been a gruelling and difficult experience for him.  We certainly appreciate his words more than we’ve ever done and understand why those terms were the length of time they were and are glad that we’ll soon be HOME after 26 months away!

12 weeks?

When we put most of this NN together countdown had just begun and we had 12 weeks to go; now we’re down to ten weeks.  Better finish straight away or we might be bringing it home with us!! J

Bye till next time,

Love from Ken & Dorothy

 

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