II. Law and Discussion Section 601 of the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act allows a non-parent to file a petition for custody of a child only if the child "is not in the physical custody of one of his parents." 750 ILCS 5/601(b)(2)(West 1994). For purposes of determining who has physical custody of the child, courts do not solely look at who has physical possession of child at time of filing. In Re Custody of Peterson, 112 Ill. 2d 48, 54, 96 Ill. Dec. 690, 491 N.E.2d 1150 (1986). Instead, the courts also consider how that possession came about and the nature and duration of the possession. In re Marriage of Carey, 188 Ill. App. 3d 1040, 1048, 136 Ill. Dec. 518, 544 N.E.2d 1293 (1989). The courts have also looked to who is providing for the child's care, custody and welfare. In re Marriage of Kulawiak, 256 Ill. App. 3d 956, 962, 628 N.E.2d 431, 194 Ill. Dec. 934 (1993). In order for a non-parent to have physical custody of the child, the parents must have "voluntarily and indefinitely relinquished custody of the child." In re Petition of Kirchner, 164 Ill. 2d 468, 491, 208 Ill. Dec. 268, 649 N.E.2d 324 (1995). The party seeking to intervene bears the burden of establishing standing. In re Marriage of Sechrest, 202 Ill. App. 3d 865, 870, 148 Ill. Dec. 615, 560 N.E.2d 1212 (1990). Once standing has been established, the court will apply the best interests of the child standard in resolving the custody dispute. 750 ILCS 5/602 (West 1994). The determination that a parent does not have physical custody of a child turns not on possession; rather, it requires a showing that the parent somehow has voluntarily and indefinitely relinquished custody of the child. In re Petition of Kirchner, 164 Ill. 2d 468, 491 (1995). However, not every voluntary turnover of a child will deprive the parent of physical custody. Rather, the court must consider such factors as (1) who was responsible for the care and welfare of the child prior to the initiation of custody proceedings; (2) the manner in which physical possession of a child was acquired; and (3) the nature and duration of the possession. Marriage of Rudsell, 291 Ill. App. 3d at 632. See Peterson, 112 Ill. 2d at 54, 491 N.E.2d at 1153; Carey, 188 Ill. App. 3d at 1049, 544 N.E.2d at 1298; Montgomery v. Roudez, 156 Ill. App. 3d 262, 509 N.E.2d 499, 108 Ill. Dec. 803 (1987). See Kirchner, 164 Ill. 2d at 491, 649 N.E.2d at 335; see also In re Custody of Peterson, 112 Ill. 2d 48, 53-54, 491 N.E.2d 1150, 1152-53, 96 Ill. Dec. 690 (1986).