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I like to think of myself as colour blind when it comes to sexual partners.

The reason I bring this up is because I get the question "Do you like black dick/cock" quite often.

This question grates on me. My standard answer is some variant of "My attraction to the man attached to the cock is more important to me than the colour." And that is the gawd honest truth. I don't care if a cock is gigantic and thick and whatever, if I think he cock owner is an ass, I am not going to have sex with him.

Now on the other hand, I can almost half understand why a person of colour might ask a person if they are interested in people of their colour. It could be that it is leftover fear of bigotry and prejudgice.

It's the "Chocolate Chasers" that bother me the most. The ones who think it's hawt to see whites with blacks (this can be seen in both gay and straight porn). When is this going to stop being some sort of porn niche? I hate the interracial porn niche. It's almost invariably white women with black men. I personally want to see more websites Chinese and Japanese men with white women. Or latin men with white women. Or middle eastern and Indian men with white women. Or how about people of all colours and sexualities who aren't porn stars having sex and enjoying it. That's what I want to see.

I feel it is also a form of bigotry to have these sites. When does black on white porn stop being taboo? If I were to do a porn website (and I've seriously considered it), I would never advertise my layouts as me doing a black person. Would I get less traffic? Probably. Would I care? No. Because even in porn you should have some principles.

Now, that said... I am hopelessly in love with Latin women. I think this stems from the fact that my first sexual experience with a woman who happened to be Latin.* I see a picture of a gorgeous Latin woman and I get wet. But I think this is because I'm conditioned. I do get wet over other women, but they are generally not white. Maybe that's because of my Dyscalculia.

If I am attracted to a woman in real life, it's because of her mind. I am not a totally guy when it comes to women, but I have a lot of guy characteristics when it comes to women. I have only had a thing for one woman in my life. I have never wanted to commit to a woman. Generally, they are fun to have sex with, hang out and have coffee with and go shopping and what have you. But I can't deal with a relationship. If I could find a woman who wanted to be friends with benefits, I'd be all over it. But most of the women I meet want more. They want to be my steady girlfriend. They don't want me to have sex with men, unless they approve. Sorry. I'm not a lesbian and I need a regular dose of penis. Nor do I like being controlled.

In the end, I suppose it does and it doesn't matter to me what colour a person is, but I try really hard not to care.