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If you have a private group, you say it's for people in your area and you make us have filled out profiles, why in the bloody hell do you allow people from other areas outside of the PacNW, not to mention OTHER COUNTRIES (excluding BC, Canada) , in the group. THOSE PEOPLE ARE TROLLS. Those are the people who come into my yahoo chat window and tell me how nice I look and wonder why I won't cyber with them, because they didn't take two f*cking minutes to read my profile.

I HATE THAT. I HATE GUYS WHO TROLL MY PROFILE LONG ENOUGH TO SEE MY PICTURE AND DON'T READ MY PROFILE TO SEE THAT I REQUIRE A FILLED OUT PROFILE AND THAT I DON'T PREFER STRAIGHT GUYS AND THAT I'M MOST ESPECIALLY LOOKING FOR LOCAL GUYS AND THAT I DON'T CYBER AND I DON'T CAM. LEARN TO READ YOU F*CKING DUMBSH*TS


You group owners do a serious disservice to those of us who want to be in these groups. It shouldn't be about numbers in your group. It should be about quality! It should be about making friends. It should be about real life sex.

It shouldn't be about guys trolling. I don't want to have to hunt thru a crap load of people who aren't even from my area, let alone North America! And if you have rules about people having filled out profiles, grow a pair and make sure you enforce that rule. It's not f*cking fair to those of us who actually took the time to fill out our profiles for your rules.

And dammit, what's with all the chit chat on these groups. I want to know about sexual health and sex law news and when parties are, not the latest joke, chain letter or meme.

And as unpopular as this is going to make me, I don't think we need to be reminded in a swing group to pray for our troops. We all know that we are in a full on war! And it's in a country that would sh*t a brick if they knew my legs spent an ungodly amount of time up by my ears while any number (it's a lot) of military men are visiting my holy place. Other than my physical troop support, I do enough praying and worrying for our men and women and the people I know who are there that I care for. I go there for fun and sex, not for the sobering reminder that a lover who is deployed over there could die. I do think about other things than sex, and the war and our government and our sexual rights are some of those things. I might not write about them on here a lot but that doesn't mean I don't dwell on them.

I belong to a lot of groups, and I've quit a few, switched my email to special notices to others, and keep a watch on the daily digest on a few more so I do try to filter out the groups that please me from those that don't. I don't think it's much to ask that you actually moderate (for those that require that) the groups you run, rather than just let anyone in them.