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I absolutely refuse to chat on AFF chat anymore.

It is the most petty, childish and idiotic chat room on the internets.

I got my nose out of joint over the way someone treated me in the PacNW room. It was a straight woman from Sequim who was looking for men. Fine. I told her that if she wanted some local guys, I’d send them her way. I figured we could compare notes. I am always looking for new friends regardless of their sexuality.

She was like, “I’ll talk to you but you aren’t gay are you?” Or something obnoxious like that.

WTF? I am not gay, and even if I was gay, who freakin cares? I’m still a human. I still know how to chat and I know people and I could hook her up with some of my straight guys.

But no. She never answered me after I told her that, “I am bi but I am human and I don’t hit on straight women”. It was rude of her to ignore me and say she wasn’t interested in chatting with me. I was honest and friendly and got shat on for it.

So, I chatted with some guys and made the comment that I’d had sex with a couple guys in Sequim the night before. But I never directly addressed her again. I figured if she wanted to approach me, she could. I was done with her.

Later on she complained about something. I don’t know what it was, because the comment didn’t come through, but it elicited a few curt responses, from one who was someone on my yahoo. I asked him what she said, and he pitched a fit about how it wasn’t any of my business and that I was causing drama. All I wanted to know was what she’d said. That was all. I wasn’t going to say anything to her in the room. The last thing that I told him before I went offline was that if you post something in the open room, everything is open season and that if you don’t want to be questioned about the things you say, then you should take those things to private. That is one of the main, unwritten rules of chat.

Needless to say I don’t think the guy and I are going to be chatting anymore. And I’m a little sad, because he seemed like a fairly nice guy. But I’ll cut my losses. There are a 1000 more guys out there. And frankly, I think he overreacted and was being irrational. Perhaps I should have stopped my line of questioning but he jumped on the defensive so quickly, it only served to make me push him harder. I thought he was disrespectful to me, for not trusting me to not make an issue of it, but I was disrespectful of him for not dropping the subject. I might even apologize, when I figure out what I’m sorry for.

I have a vested interest in who is fucking who in my area on a chat room like this because inevitably this chick and I will be sharing partners. We may end up at parties together and I want to know what sort of person this woman is like. I don’t want drama in my real life, so it’s in my best interest to know what the drama is all about in the chat. I’d just file it away into the “people who cause drama” file in my mind. Nothing more, nothing less.

Because I’ve had this unpleasant experience I’m going to stick to the other chat I go to on another server and hang out there. I get treated like shit there from time to time, but not ever by anyone in my local area.

Oh and you’ll notice that I didn’t use names or handles. That’s because I have enough respect for both people not cause even more drama.

And they both need a good root up the ass for that matter. Maybe I do too.