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from The
Post-Star, Glens Falls, NY www.poststar.com
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Red kettles
and ringing bells
On The Bright Side
By Kay Hafner
Ding-a-ding. Ding-a-ding.
Everyone knows what the sight of red kettles and the sound of
ringing bells mean: collections for the Salvation Army. It's a
good cause that helps to feed and clothe the poor and homeless
in our area.
The Salvation Army has people to do this during the week, but
they use volunteers from around the community to fill in on
the weekends.
For nine years, my husband has helped out with these efforts
through the Glens Falls Kiwanis Club, which staffs two
positions at Aviation Mall for a day. For five or six years
we've done it as a family. Sometimes my daughter or I have
been sick, but my husband has always pulled through.
This past Saturday we manned the 4 to 5 p.m. shift at what is
now known as the Bon Ton entrance, but anyone who's been
around awhile knows it as the Ground Round entrance. (I really
wish they'd get a real restaurant in there again.)
As I took my place I made a mental note to ask my husband to
try for a daytime slot next year. It was already dark with the
temperature hovering around freezing, if not below.
Just our luck to get the weekend when winter decided to kick
in. The first storm of the year was still hours away but snow
was definitely in the air.
I knew enough to dress in layers for the occasion and wore
gloves and boots but couldn't find a hat. By the end of the
hour my toes and fingers were numb and I was happy to head
home, while the other two family members went inside to do
some shopping.
We had two bells at our station, both of them familiar
friends. I prefer the smaller one, not only because it fits in
my hand better but also because it has a nicer sound.
The larger one has a square padlock for a clapper, which gives
it a louder, harsher sound and also makes it heavier.
My husband borrowed a set of sleigh bells from someone in the
previous time slot so my daughter and I traded on and off
using the smaller bell.
There's a definite knack to ringing. Hand bells can be
melodious and sweet, drawing people in and making them want to
give to the cause.
Or they can be clanging and haranguing, a wall of sound that
steers people away.
The last thing you want to do, especially with two people
ringing at once, is to endlessly hammer the bells. Better to
get into a gentle rhythm.
When little ones--toddlers and preschoolers mostly--put their
coins in the kettle, we ask them if they want to ring a bell.
It's so precious to see the smile on a child's face as she
shakes the small bell and marvels at the pretty sound. It's
just a glimpse of the glow that will be on her face on
Christmas morning.
Standing in front of a mall for an hour, you see lots of
people scurrying in and out. When familiar faces go by it's
nice to be able to chat. Sometimes foot traffic is too busy
and all I can do is smile and wave.
At any rate, it's quite a stage for people-watching.
I saw enthusiastic bargain hunters enter and weary shoppers
exit. I'm used to seeing people leave their coats in the car
to reduce bulk, but I shivered to see a teenager in shorts and
a woman in a skirt with bare legs and sandals.
I saw only children hand-in-hand between their parents and
mothers by themselves pushing double strollers. I saw a pack
of preteens smoking final puffs on their cigarettes before
catching a bus for home.
We saw a healthy-looking woman park in a handicapped spot who
gave nothing. A little while later a man in his 30s with a
cane walked from farther out in the aisles and placed a folded
dollar in the slot.
There�s no way to predict who will give what. Whether it's a
tough-looking teen tossing in some pennies from his jacket
pocket or an older woman pulling out a long list and some
dollar bills from her purse, the amount doesn�t really
matter. Everyone gets a sincere and heartfelt thank you.
I almost didn�t make it this year. I spent most of Saturday
curled up under blankets, worrying that I was coming down with
the stomach bug that�s been making the rounds.
I really wanted to ring the bells but I�d been cold for much
of the day that the idea of even going outside to get the mail
gave me shivers.
After a very long, hot shower in the afternoon I�d warmed up
considerably and decided to give it a try. We took separate
vehicles just in case I found I couldn�t handle it.
I�m glad I went. It was actually the best I felt all day
long. Human interaction and helping others is a great way to
take your mind off your own troubles.
On the Bright Side
appears every other week in the Arts/Life section. Kay Hafner
can be reached via email at [email protected].
copyright Kay
Hafner 2001
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