On The Bright Side
by Kay Hafner
A news brief in Saturday�s paper caught my attention
with this intriguing headline: "Mysterious bill payers
follow movie�s lead." The movie referred to is called
Pay It Forward, the latest film out for Kevin Spacey, Helen
Hunt and Haley Joel Osment. It came out in October but didn�t
know anything about it, so I hopped on the Internet to find
out more.
You�ve probably heard about random acts of kindness, the
idea inspired by author Anne Herbert ("Practice random
kindness and senseless acts of beauty."). This movie
takes that concept and, quite literally, increases its power
exponentially. Given the assignment to "think of an idea
for world change, and put it into action," a 12-year-old
boy comes up with what he calls the Pay It Forward game. He
figures out on his calculator that if one person does
something good for three other people, each of whom do
something good for three more people, and this continues, the
number of people helped quickly multiplies into the thousands
and millions. The only rules are that the good deed must be
something that really helps people and something they can�t
do by themselves.
There�s a lot more to the movie than just this plan, and
some reviews I read criticize the plot twists as being too
manipulative and the cast as gunning shamelessly for award
nominations. Whatever the critics say, the ultimate thumbs-up
review is from the two people in Buffalo who took an idea from
the silver screen and applied it to real life.
According to the full story in the Nov. 24 Buffalo News,
Melissa Fortin recently wrote a check for her car lease,
sealed it in an envelope and tucked it in her purse, intending
to mail it when she had stamps. It was a two-month bill with
only one month�s payment.
An anonymous couple found the envelope in a store parking
lot, the day after they saw Pay It Forward. It didn�t have a
return address. Rather than just put a stamp on it, which
would have been a nice enough thing to do, they opened it to
find out the identity of the sender. When they saw the partial
payment, they decided to pay the balance of $269.02. They did
call Fortin to let her know they had stamped and mailed the
bill, but several days later she received a letter detailing
the rest of the story. No address, no phone number, no way to
thank or repay them. Nothing to do but follow their lead and
pay the debt forward.
I wonder what she�ll do. And I wonder if the kindnesses
she offers will be passed along. While I believe that people
have good hearts, it�s more difficult than it should be to
turn ideas into actions. Modern life has us going so fast we
don�t see the little opportunities for charity and
compassion until it�s too late. It�s like zooming along
with traffic on the Autobahn and not being able to stop at an
accident scene without causing an accident in the process.
Reading this story made me think about the things I�ve
done, and wished I�d done, for other people.
A few months ago I gave a stranger a ride after his vehicle
broke down on the side of Pitcher Road in Queensbury. He wasn�t
asking for a ride. He just seemed to need a helping hand. As I
passed by I saw him check under the hood. When I turned around
and drove by again, he�d gotten inside and seemed to be
pondering what to do next. It was a nice day, I didn�t have
anywhere to be, so I rolled down my window and asked if there
was anything I could do. After I dropped him off that little
voice in the back of my head said, "Good job."
Yet just this weekend I passed by two people walking in the
rain along Aviation Road near the mall carrying garbage bags
full of empty cans and bottles. I rationalized that my station
wagon was already full with a Christmas tree and some packages
and kept my foot on the accelerator. As I drove away that
little voice said, "You blew it."
I guess we can�t let our missed opportunities discourage
us. Every good effort is worthwhile. After all, it takes
billions of raindrops to reverse the ill effects of a drought.
It might just be possible for three good deeds�paid forward
times three�could be enough to turn the tide.
Kay Hafner, a writer from Queensbury, can be reached via
email at [email protected]. Past columns can be viewed at
kayhafner.homepage.com.