Week 40 - Y2 (Dec 3rd to Dec 9th)
Sunday Dec 3rd, Today, I went to Daegu, just for the day-- Mike is leaving on Thursday, and I wanted to have the chance to say goodbye in person. Too many goodbyes . . . I hate goodbyes! He will be missed greatly. I ended up taking the last train back to Seoul, in other words, the slow train, which takes 4 hours! It left at 11:30, and I got back to Seoul at 3:30. The train sucked . . . it was loud, uncomfortable, filled with fluorescent lighting and bad air circulation. However, it was worth it to spend the day in Daegu!
Monday Dec 4th, So I woke up this morning to a shower absent of hot water. Thought it was just a onetime fluke . . . until I got home from Iksan and realized that I didn't have any heat AT ALL! To make matters worse, my superintendant is a lazy SOB who hasn't done any of the required maintenance work on the plumbing in ages, and had to turn off the water entirely for the whole night and following morning to do emergency work. This week is NOT off to a good start.
Tuesday Dec 5th, Well, I had a shower using a bottle of water this morning. It was delightful. Even better, when I came home from school, I called the super back in to look at my boiler, and he seemed unconvinced that anything was even wrong with it. It took me hours to convince that it wasn't working! Meanwhile, I'm trying to get ready for my stupid regular gig that I hate with a passion . . . Tonight at the club, there was a new act-- Bong Won hired 2 Filipino girls and a Filipino guy to replace the singer that quit. They do all cheesy pop songs to a karaoke tape, and are actually quite terrible, but the girls are really pretty . . . Anyway, apparently Bong Won is all up in their face for not doing more jazz stuff, which interestingly sounds like the exact opposite complaint he had about my tunes! What the hell is wrong with this place? Junko, Awee and Andy have only been there one night and they already want to quit too. As far as them being from the Phillipines, I learned that there's actually quite a lot of Filipino musicians in Korea-- they get hired by recruiters the same way English teachers get hired, to work in hotels or specialized bars, so on. Apparently they can make a lot more money entertaining in Korea than they can at home. In any case, it gives me some comfort to know that they hate this club too!
Wednesday Dec 6th, Final vocal exams in Seoul today. Again, dealing with the incredibly bitchy vocal teacher who is a minor Korean celebrity, and shall remain nameless. She was in fine form today . . . Finally a repair man came today, to fix my boiler. Three days of cold showers and freezing at night has made Kari NOT a happy camper. Downside-- I had to pay $60 to have it fixed. I mean, it's not like I don't have the money these days, but still, isn't the super supposed to deal with stuff like this? It's not like this is my house; why should I have to pay for it's maintenance? Anyway, it's fixed, and that's all that matters.
Thursday Dec 7th, Best shower ever this morning . . . More vocal exams at the Iksan campus today. I consider myself a very fair marker, and that means that I very rarely give out A grades. Unfortunately, when we went to calculate the final marks of the students, I discovered that there is a big problem with the marking from the other vocal teachers-- they were boosting their own students' marks to try to make them unjustly higher! Our school actually has marking guidelines where only a certain number of students can receive A's, B's, so on. Then when I posed the question of whether some of these students actually earned an A, I was met with a tirade about how this and that student was a really nice person, and how could we change their marks, and blah blah blah. All of this took 2 hours. 2 hours of arguing back and forth, of things being only half-translated for me, of political MESS! Honestly! This cannot happen next year . . . I'm going to have to be a bitchier boss if I want things to be even remotely fair to our students. After this huge debacle, we attended a party for all the vocal students at a local restaurant, and that cheered me up some-- it reminded me of why I like my job so much. These students are so sweet, and it kills me to have to say goodbye to so many of them. I'm losing a lot of students not only to graduation, but a lot of my 1st year male students have been called to do their 2 year military service. So many of the kids cried today and made me promise to remember them-- I spent most of the night trying not to cry as well. At 9:30, we took the express bus back to Seoul to meet up with the rest of the vocal teachers, which of course I really did not feel like doing considering the previous events of the night, but I couldn't really think of a way out of it. (It's not like North America, where if you don't want to go out, you just don't go. Things are done in groups here, everyone or no one mentality. Nobody leaves on their own, everyone leaves together. Work events, ie parties/dinners, MUST be attended whether one wants to or not). So I sucked it up and spent the next boring 4 hours drinking beer and not really understanding most of the conversation which most of the time was not being translated for me.
Saturday Dec 9th, Horrible irony of ironies . . . I went to school today to drop off my final improv marks, and my favourite Seoul student, Moon Young was there looking through the Christmas fakebook. She called me over, all excited to tell me that she had just been hired for a regular gig at . . . I'm not even kidding, the same frigging club. I was so in shock, I didn't even know what to say. I'm utterly horrified. My favourite student, of all the people to hire to replace me! I hate him, hate him, hate him! Now I'm in a very awkward position-- do I tell Moon Young about how ridiculous this gig is, and risk having it look like I'm just being kind of weird and jealous about her taking over my old gig, OR do I let her walk into a crappy situation without any warning? It's one of her first real gigs, and I don't want to discourage her, but I don't want this gig to end up discouragin her more . . . OH MY GOD, could this week get any worse? I'm definitely having an "I hate Korea" week (maybe even an "I hate everything" week).
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