Week 12- Y3(May 27th to Jun 2nd)
Sunday: Another salsa boot camp today, this time with Denny Hong, a Korean American award-winning dancer. (He's also very very attractive, and I spent half the class trying not to drool and wishing that all men could dance that well) It was really fun and I learned a lot, but once again, I had to laugh-- a room full of cool, smart, attractive girls and smelly, bad-dancing, know-it-all guys. I swear, I'm going to start recruiting guys every single time I go out dancing from now on! And now . . . back to grading papers. It never ends!
Monday: Finally. Finished. Marking.
Tuesday: I'm only now starting to get things together for my summer vacation. I checked the school dates, and technically I'm supposed to be doing my hagwon teaching all through the summer. And they better start scheduling the makeup lessons, cause there's no way in hell I'm staying through the summer to teach one day a week! So I contacted my travel agent, and I'm booked to fly out on June 18. I'll stay a couple days in Vancouver, then it's on to TO! YAY!!! I'm excited for: patios, fresh air, fresh salads, checking out good gigs . . . the list is endless. And this vacation couldn't come at a better time: sometimes this city really drives me crazy-- all the pushing and shoving, the crowds, the extremely bad driving (red light means stop?) I'm ready for some chilled-out Canadiana.
Thursday: No work today; thanks to Buddha's birthday I'll be enjoying an extra long weekend! Today I had my first date ever with a Korean guy. I met Jin at Tom's birthday party, and while I hadn't picked him out of the crowd, he pursued me, so I figured I might as well give him a chance. His English is really good, as he lived in Hawaii and then Arizona for several years. Anyway, I don't think we'll be going out again (although he'll probably still text me every day for awhile, which I found quite annoying leading up to the date). Too many cultural differences? I guess Korean girls expect everything to be done for them on a date-- girls never pay, doors get held open, girls are treated like they're utterly useless at looking out for themselves, like they can't and shouldn't have to work hard at anything. That's not me. I resented feeling like a vapid shell who's incapable of doing anything on her own. Jin's nice enough, but I can't handle the constant "doting" on. It was also hard to make the date end. We met up in the afternoon, and I was bored by dinnertime, but he just kept on taking me to other places. Finally, around midnight, I was just like, okay, it's my bedtime! And then he insisted on seeing me home in the taxi even though he lived in the opposite direction! Why do girls allow themselves to be treated like they're helpless here? Moreover, why do they seem to enjoy being treated like they're helpless?
Saturday: It's Evan's birthday! So I took the train down to Daegu to party it up. First of all, I just realized how old-school Daegu I am-- I didn't know 90% of the people out tonight! That was kind of a weird feeling in my "hometown". There's still some old Daegu-ites kicking around, but the number is quickly dwindling. Second of all, there's some political stuff going on . . . Evan and Ali broke up a little while ago, after she had gone back to England. Of course, the timing kind of sucked, what with Ali's dad being so sick, but after talking about it with Ev, it seems obvious that it had to be done. Now because of this, some of the old Daegu girls are being really hard on Evan, despite the fact that Ali wouldn't have wanted that, and that most of them have known Evan longer than Ali. Breakup politics are stupid! Anyway, it was unclear whether the girls would come out tonight, even though I hadn't been down to Daegu in a long time. Some of the girls did eventually come, but they didn't stay for long, and they barely spoke to Evan. That put a slight damper on the night, but we did still manage to party it up Evan Moore style, which means loads of drinking and loads of dancing!
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