There is a wise saying in Mahabharata that anything scandalous done up to the age of twelve is considered as done in innocence, but after that question of immaturity doesn’t arise and guys do it in their full conscious form. Due to our weird cushioned culture, it is considered shocking for young adults to take an initiative for their marriage, and this practice is in vogue since ages. People think it to be the prerogative of parents, who have been considered to have wisdom and experience to handle conjugal relationships. Though the above restrictions still stand in India, but the young people have started crossing the boundaries to establish the relationship themselves. Attraction towards the opposite sex is not unusual and thus some people get entangled at the first site of each other, and shortly become hoity-toity and forget the world around them. They feel uncomfortable when men come across another more docile and sparkling girl, many of which float around to disturb their peace for their own advantage. Girls disbelieve men’s tact’s for getting cheated in love though they get timely shivers that wrack their bodies, but they ignore, thinking their nearness to be a relief. They get awake from their love tangle, after they fall a prey to their physical faculties and start listening to their head and not heart.
Victims get a sudden shock and outburst, which is natural and expected. Their secret wafts out like a scent, the relationship comes in the open, and blame game starts. At this stage the swindler wants to be camouflaged, and talk about the respect, honour and the privilege of his parents. If the partners are not in true love, they try to find faults in one another, which give a breather to men to hide the guilt and to save their skin. It is a distress for some tender hearts, and if not timely taken care of, the victim takes adverse steps taking the separation to heart. Parents are always the well wisher of their blood and have the emotional attachment with them. In such circumstances they shield their own folk and never care about the victim of their child’s cruelty. The girls usually are gentle and submissive, even if they are heading off singly and act independent. It is a saying that women love all the time and men only at times. The boys are generally unthinkable, irrevocable, appalling and put their parents in a difficult situation. The parents find fault in the disgraced girlfriend and the matter is blown up like a whirlwind.
When another beauty becomes men’s delicate choice, the parents in their haste decide to bind them in nuptial chain, forgetting about his previous relationship. They take steps cautiously, because the anguished soul is still alive to its fresh wounds and is likely to clutter the situation if got the smell of that relationship. Both love birds though remain separate but remain in an attacking mode if reconciliation is distant away. They even lose the courtesy of talking to each other when they cross each other’s path unintentionally. During optimism they share the details of their life, which in their separation deflect to their combined embarrassment and mutual frustration. During the aggravation of their annoyance they think of getting back the costly offerings gifted to each other, but sometimes the ignominy compels them to forget about it. In some cases they part with them in irritation, thinking to severe all connections, not even letting its thought cloud their judgment for the taste of their bitter experience that caused their suffering. Time is a great healer and ultimately the friends and relations tell them to forget as it was the mismatch of their stars.
While starting the relationship young people feel a mixture of fondness, fear and tender feelings in their head. They could sense the stunning energy swirling through their body confusing them, but the physical attraction make them sense their deep concern. They shatter any restraint when they remain close of each other, and kiss their sharp bolts of lightning through their bodies. They enjoy their closeness with the magic touch of their tender skin, and enjoy the unblinking gaze into each other’s eyes allowing the scent of their bodies to draw in through their senses. Their pleasure is so intense that they allow themselves to absorb the exquisite, and squeeze their eyes shut in sheer bliss. Previously a surge of warmth flooded through their heart and now the annoying feeling of some misunderstanding frantically slap their cheek. Is it not sardonic and shameful? Their fury replaces their chilly determination, and they feel themselves completely brain addled. Closing in the icy waves of desperation is their own making, and they deliberately skim over the terrifying details by downplaying their priorities for each other.
It is amazing that after taking sound commitment in their boom period they want to play false, telling people they were immature and inexperienced. After the balance of special bond is disturbed, they talk of infidelity without judging how their aspirations were scorned. Their mind gets a wave of disapproval though they have taken a considerable time to hone that perfection to get the bliss of their desire. With malicious mind they start talking in double tone and want to get rid of each other. Here we can say a woman is an enemy of a woman and they are quite smug with no concern for their counterparts which has become the way of the world. They take pleasure in the horrid punishment of isolation, and regard each other with concerns that rapidly shift to disbelief.
We should not hope for them to have better days ahead because hope is the most dangerous thing in the world. I really wonder why I think about such incidents because it is Kaluga and these things are bound to happen. Still I wish to have a magic power to direct the erring persons on their right path.