| Can we understand? |
| Can we understand why or how they know they are gay? |
| Not normally, unless you are gay, too. You can only understand why your friends do things or are the way they are to a certain extent anyway. Because gayness is such a mortifying topic in our society, we treat it as an illness we can kill by understanding it in order to cure it. Can a gay person understand why we are attracted to those of the opposite sex? |