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| "Why does it seem that the people who are closest to you are the easiest to fall in love with?" |
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"Because I am mentally incapacitated at the moment, I cannot answer." |
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"You are close with them already. It is always easy to fall inlove with someone when you already know all about them..........I guess." |
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"It's because the seem safe. You know them, trust them, and already like them as a friend. And many times the qualities we look for in a mate are the same qualities we look for in a friend. So it seems natural to look in your circle of friends when you are looking for someone to fall in love with." |
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"The people who are the closest to you are the ones you like the most, either because they're like you, or you see qualities in them that draw you together. But it's those same qualities that you want in someone to date, or spend the rest of your life with, or whatever.....therefore it's easier to fall in love with them. Plus you probably spend more time together and know them better, so you feel safer falling in love with them---you know what you're getting into. Lastly, the qualities you want in a good friend (loyalty, humor, common interests, etc.) are the same qualities you want in a mate, so when you see these in your friends, it's hard to seperate them. Oh! And your good friends are FAR more likely to forgive your faults and weird behaviors (like playing with talking vegetables, for example) so you like them more for being so understanding." |
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"You're friends usually have the same qualities you want in a significant other. The only thing that makes them more in than a friend is the fact that you wouldn't mind jumping them and you don't want to share them with other women (or men).. Of course, that's just Al Gore's humble opinion, and sometimes I can be wrong." |
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