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Why?

Ok I need someone…anyone to help me understand something. Relationships! I have never been in a relationship that lasted longer than a year or so. Now, I can’t say its me…it’s always them. Cheating, confused, commitment issues, self problems…even had one tell me that I was to aggressive, something like a stud, but I dress like a femme. Even told me I eat pussy like a stud…and some more ol’crazy shyt! But a lot of them left me to go back to their ex-lovers who they ended up leaving again and tried to come back. But I don’t go BACK. My mother was not a VCR…and I am not a DVD player.

Anyway, help me to understand this here…! You know when you have a job and you’re in search of a new one. You don’t leave the old job until you find a new one. I have notices that every woman I meet is still holding on to the old relationship until they find something better! Why do they do this? This causes DRAMA! Why would you want to start off a new relationship with some drama? Please help me to understand this.

If you can’t be happy during that alone time…what makes you think you gonna be happy when you meet someone new? Let go of the old…get them out your system fully…then more on. Stop rushing!!!

Ok, so tell me….WHY?

OH, THE PHOTO WAS JUST TO GET YOUR ADDTENTION...MY LEGS...LOL!!!

2007-07-13 13:38:34 GMT

Comments (2 total)

Author:skillssaysitall

I think women (especially lesbians) have a tendency to be extremely emotionally attached...which I guess is fine if we can learn to detach when necessary. I haven't experienced a relationship like this in a while because I quickly learned how to avoid them by asking simple questions like: How long have you and the ex been seperated? Do you still have contact with one another and how often? Do you have any obligations to this person (personal property, children, etc.)? And I pay close attention to how a potential love interest handles being alone. If they can't be by themselves comfortably for extended periods of time, the red flags definitely go up. I don't even bother!

2007-07-13 16:29:10 GMT

Author:elizannie2000

Umm.... damn I dont know but I think you should have moved the camra up just little hehehe

2007-09-04 01:11:27 GMT

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		Why? Ok I need someone…anyone to help me understand something. Relationships! I have never been in a relationship that lasted longer than a year or so. Now, I can’t say its me…it’s always them. Cheating, confused, commitment issues, self problems…even had one tell me that I was to aggressive, something like a stud, but I dress like a femme. Even told me I eat pussy like a stud…and some more ol’crazy shyt! But a lot of them left me to go back to their ex-lovers who they ended up leaving again and tried to come back. But I don’t go BACK. My mother was not a VCR…and I am not a DVD player. Anyway, help me to understand this here…! You know when you have a job and you’re in search of a new one. You don’t leave the old job until you find a new one. I have notices that every woman I meet is still holding on to the old relationship until they find something better! Why do they do this? This causes DRAMA! Why would you want to start off a new relationship with some drama? Please help me to understand this. If you can’t be happy during that alone time…what makes you think you gonna be happy when you meet someone new? Let go of the old…get them out your system fully…then more on. Stop rushing!!! Ok, so tell me….WHY? OH, THE PHOTO WAS JUST TO GET YOUR ADDTENTION...MY LEGS...LOL!!! 2007-07-13 13:38:34 GMT Comments (2 total) Author:skillssaysitall I think women (especially lesbians) have a tendency to be extremely emotionally attached...which I guess is fine if we can learn to detach when necessary. I haven't experienced a relationship like this in a while because I quickly learned how to avoid them by asking simple questions like: How long have you and the ex been seperated? Do you still have contact with one another and how often? Do you have any obligations to this person (personal property, children, etc.)? And I pay close attention to how a potential love interest handles being alone. If they can't be by themselves comfortably for extended periods of time, the red flags definitely go up. I don't even bother! 2007-07-13 16:29:10 GMT Author:elizannie2000 Umm.... damn I dont know but I think you should have moved the camra up just little hehehe 2007-09-04 01:11:27 GMT Site Home