Ask a sales person the status of leads and he will describe it as cold, warm or hot which obviously indicates the proximity of its turning to an order.

Ask a flirt the status of his girl friends and he can use the same description/ language to refer his intention or how far he is from pinning her down to wedlock or emotional inclination/ dependency towards him.

The sales person loves to hear his clients praise him for the right pricing, quick delivery, immediate installation, excellent interaction skills, thorough product knowledge whatever. Ever called a sales person to tackle a month old problem, after sales? Don’t!! Service is not always his forte. Net result, he is likely to lose the customer. Simply because the sales person could gauge he is likely not going to get business from this client in the near future, it doesn’t make much of a difference to his targets. Short sighted perhaps but that is what most of them are.

Do you need a similar analogy for women?

The flirt's ego factor is satisfied. The girl, who seemed to be a tough nut to crack has finally let her feelings known. Lot of self selling, kite flying and finally done! Order achieved, now comes the work order to execute the service function.  By that time, he is concentrating on other leads!!

When the women demands assurance how much you love her, miss her, when you plan to marry, when you will talk to your parents and a similar saga,  that bugs the flirt no end, simply because he is not designed to deliver post sales service I mean post proposal assurances.

LDR is the best. She never gets to know how many leads he is developing. Being a harmless compulsive liar, he has an awesome timing to use his phrases appropriately to make the unassuming lady believe what he said, low IQ lady that is! The above average ones are way too smart.

Example: When a man gives additional information without asking: Me still at office, will buy a pair or brown shoes in the evening, preparing dinner, he is most certainly not doing that. Proactively when he is stating, he hardly comes on line these days due to massive work pressure, probably means he has not been doing much besides that: Being online!

The eternal search and endless pursuit would get him the best of orders but repeat sales? Who cares!!