Posted by Gretchen [gretchen18] on November 16, 1999 at 20:36:49 {pRztWiaeukn75eubIkxERFJ37vagLY}:
In Reply to: *Advice?? posted by honeyand on November 16, 1999 at 20:28:43:
I can't "let it lie"... if I want to marry him (which I do very much) one of two things must happen. I must convert, or he must face being looked upon as "unevenly yoked". I don't want to bring him any suffering... and I believe that he may want to leave... but I will not FORCE him to do anything. It's his life and I love him no matter what it is that he may choose, but at the same time I want him to be happy. And he certainly isn't right now. I just was wondering if anyone might be able to tell me how to bring it up in a manner that will not seem like an attack or condescending. I mean it as neither.