Posted by Pete [Rae9076] on November 15, 1999 at 16:41:32 {AS5l1tybL6.WOyw5gp1./LKywl8xS2}:
In Reply to: very intimate stuff posted by new2this on November 15, 1999 at 16:03:02:
The situation you mentioned is one of the drawbacks of the net. I don't feel you are a control freak, you are trying to keep an eye on your husband who is really being unfaithful. If you value your marriage, do not stop.
You need to try and talk to your husband about this, tell him how you feel about it all, and ask him why.
All men are not like this.
I think that the "girls" know what they are doing and it is up to them to deal with the pimps, or whatever drives them to do this. I hope God will look into their hearts to see the true person inside.
If your husband will not have an open dialog with you about this, will not go to counseling, and continues this behavior, then my suggestion to you is to take the paper bag off of your head, put it on his (where it belongs) and lead him to the door.
I am new to this too, but I do know that his behavior is wrong and inexcusable.
There isn't anything wrong with you, he is the one with the problem and you are the one getting hurt.
Talk to him, give him a chance, then if that doesn't work... give him a good shove out the door.
Good luck, and may God give you some peace.
Keep in touch.
Pete and Rae