Posted by new2this [new2this] on November 15, 1999 at 16:03:02 {AS5l1tybL61vMkeTU9QQ3Xfj96p4YA}:
Hi I am "new2this" (married to smurf) and I have a few questions to you all. We have a few problems in our family, some of them are related to our previous opinion regarding moral. To put is shortly:
My husband is frequently visiting phonographic sites on the web. This fact disturbs me a lot. Let me make myself clear on this.
1. I don't agree on the major (?) point of view that these girls do it for their own pleasure. I think that it's normally a "pimp" involved and that young teens doesn't like to expose themselves in this manner to middle-aged man as shown on the pictures. So they are in fact used by a) their "pimp" and b) their viewer. Not to mention that most of them are under some sort of addictement to drugs like most surveys are reporting.
2. I experience a lot of personal difficulties due to this. After my husband has visited these sites he is all so eager to have sex with me. He comes and hugs me and asks: "Well, are we going to do it?" And to be very honest I don't feel like it knowing that he has his erection due to these phonographic pictures. I would be another object, preferable with a paperbag on my head, and not someone he loves and really cherished as his wife and mother of his children.
3. Therefor, or to be more honest since I nowadays check his latest doings on the computer, I am called "You think you are a GB member" or "You are a controlling freak" and so on.
4. Question: Am I a controlling freak?
5. Is this manner "normal" to all men?
6. If so - don't you feel for the girls involved?
7. If so ' do you have a suggestion about how I should handle this personally?
This might be deleted…. if so I don't know who to ask.
/New2this