Top 10 signs she’s not interested
by Christina Russel
You have a problem: You really like this woman, but you can't figure out
if she reciprocates your feelings. You'd love to ask her out, but the
thought of rejection stops you cold. So how do you gauge whether or not
she's interested in you? The good news is that many times all of the
necessary signs are there -- you just have to know what they are.
Listed below are the top 10 signs that a woman isn't interested;
if she shows any of the following behavioral patterns, you're going to
be much better off putting your energies elsewhere. So, without further ado:
- She doesn't remember your name
If your name is Robert and she keeps calling you Joe, forget about her.
Not only is she not interested in dating you -- she can't even be bothered
to show you the smallest sign of respect!
- She's always out of town or working
She was at a wedding in New York last weekend, a funeral in Denver the one
before that, and is visiting friends in British Columbia next weekend.
Not only that, but she seems to work well into the wee hours every single
weeknight. Unless she's secretly employed as the morning shift waitress at
the local diner, she's just making excuses. She doesn't want to see you and
she's either too polite -- or too chicken -- to tell you this directly.
- She never calls you back or returns your email
Ever wonder why everyone else seems to receive the emails you send them,
but she never does? And how many times can her answering machine be broken?
If it's so darned unreliable, then why doesn't she replace it? Could it be
that the machine is selective about the messages it loses?
(That's a rhetorical question.)
- She doesn't listen to you
If she says things like,
Huh? What did you say? or,
"You talking to me? You talking to me?" or,
"Sorry, I wasn't listening " then you should take the hint.
She seems more impressed by the lint on her black pants than what you are saying.
Move on.
- She doesn't remember what you tell her
If you bring up something you two had previously discussed and are met
with nothing but a blank stare, it's a pretty clear indication that she
hasn't been listening to you. And if that's the case, it shows an obvious
lack of interest on her part. (Either that or she's really stupid -- in
which case you shouldn't date her anyway.)
- She keeps asking about your friend
If you are talking to the object of your affection and she is constantly
interrupting you to ask about your friend Will, then she is clearly not
interested in you. You should probably pass her number on to him -- with
her permission, of course -- and try to forget about the two of them together.
- She never looks for commonalities between you
You are moved by the fact that you both like coffee in the morning --
"How weird is that?!?" In the meantime, she keeps emphasizing the fact
that she likes Mellow Mocha, while you tend to order French Roast -- "It's
just not the same, you know!"
- She would rather run errands
You work in the same building and when you ask her if she would like to
have lunch with you at the nearby café, she declines because she is all
out of dishwashing soap and doesn't want to miss the 7-cent discount at
the drug store across town. Either she's really thrifty, or she finds her
dirty dishes more interesting than you -- sorry.
- She hides from you
If she sees you coming and looks for the closest place to hide, then you
really don't need me to tell you that she doesn't like you, right? Tell me
you aren't that clueless.
- She is happily married
Some guys don't get this one, but it's a biggie. If she is wearing a wedding
band and seems happy about this fact, then she is not looking for another
relationship. Trust me.
Although it's not always easy to tell if a woman likes you or not, even the
most cautious women tend to exhibit signs either way. I hope that this little
list has been both entertaining and helpful in determining if she would like
to see more of you or not.
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