This, sadly, reflects another grim chapter in my life.  I took my first ever paid vacation (wow) and used it to visit my father and my family there for my brother's birthday.  For the whole time that I was there, however, I was completely unable to sleep at night, and I was feeling somewhat depressed.  This perhaps is an outgrowth of the themes expressed in "Incubus."  Same girl.  Same problems.  Different situation though, because now I was physically removed also, thousands of miles away.  And I wasn't feeling so hot.  I guess though time does not stand still for any man, and life will eventually move on, without you if it has to.  So move along with it or get left behind.