I have this problem. my boyfriend wont say that he loves me. i will say it to him and then he just looks at me with this dumb expression and says, "uhhh. ummm." and i don't know what to do. What should i do?
~unloved
A: Dear unloved
I had to go to a guy for this question. and what he said was that, most guys think that the words i love you are a sign of cometment, and they think that when they say it, it means that u 2 will date forever. u just need to explain to him that he can love u, but that it doesn't mean that he is IN LOVE with u. u need to explain to him the diffrence, that a married couple is IN LOVE, but boyfriends and girlfriends [usually] just love eachother. hopefully i helped.
~aly
Q: Dear aly,
my close friend is mad at me and i don't know why. she just walkes off and will tell everyone that she doesn't wanna say but that what i did was so bad that she will never talk to me again. i have a feeling that the person that really did it was an ex boyfriend for he still likes me but i won't go out with him. and he knows my old e-mail address and password so i think he is e-mailing her some really really mean things. what do i do??
~upset
A: Dear upset,
i think the first thing you should do is e-mail your old e-mail address. for if it has not been in use for so long then it will tell you that it is null-and-void. then if it doesn't [as long as he is the only one that knows your password] i think u should talk to him about it. during that prosses write ur friend a letter and stick it in her locker. if she doesn't read it then i don't think u 2 should be friends, if she isn't even going to lisen to u. if she reads it then explain to her that if it had to do w/ and e-mail from wherever then tell her that u think it has to do w/ whom ever. well e-mail me if it worked and if not i will get my friends on the case and we will give you somemore help.
~aly