I watch too much television, but... in this extreme elimidate reality show, for love or money 2, fifteen men compete for a woman's heart and $1 million. Before final elimination, the last two men are told they must choose either love or money. When she makes her final pick, he must decide whether to stay with her OR keep the cash on condition he can never see her again.
Sarah McLachlan sings one compatibility test: you are a smitten kitten when you consider someone's love better than ice cream (and/or chocolate).
Now, you might ask, would you choose cash or ass? I mean, love or money?
Hesitation perhaps points to a question mark on that relationship.
Home skillet (Chad) on the show gave up $1 million to be with this female (Erin) who, in the first for love or money, chose the million over the man.